10 ideas to start a conversation in a fun and original way

Choosing the right method to approach a woman is essential. Approaches like, “Hey, you’re very charming!” or “And, miss, have you lost something? What? Your smile!” are not at all effective. It’s rare to see a man leave with a phone number using these types of approaches.

However, it’s true that approaching a woman can be complicated in a world where they’re often in demand. That’s why it’s important to use cool, original approaches that stand out from the crowd.

To help you, here is a top 10 of approaches to use without moderation!

“Hello, are you waiting for someone? Me too, we can wait together.”
Very sober and not very offensive, this sentence allows you to approach a conversation in all simplicity without being heavy.

“It’s been a while since I’ve been here, what kind of music is playing?”
Here, we simply suggest you use the location you’re in to start a conversation. It’s a good excuse to discuss your shared tastes.

“Do you like coffee éclairs?”
You are at a buffet or something else, in a bakery, at a party, and you ask her about something that is highly erotic for many people: food.

“I see you have a Bob Dylan t-shirt, have you ever seen him in concert?”
This shows that you have observed it and that you like a culture it refers to. A very good point.

“I’d love to stay with you longer to chat, but I have an appointment. Shall we exchange numbers so we can continue our conversation?”
You don’t seem completely rushed to meet, and you still initiate contact.

“Excuse me for bothering you, but what are you reading?”
You’re on the subway and you want to talk to the woman across from you, who’s deep in her book. It’s about showing her that you don’t mind disturbing her, but that you’re interested in what she’s doing.

“Excuse me, but where did you find this? It looks really good.”
About what she drinks or eats.

“Hi, we don’t see each other often, what department do you work in?”
At your workplace, to connect with someone you rarely see.

“What are you playing?”
If you are on the train and she is playing a game alone or with her travel partner.

“Hi, well I could tell you that you’re a real sunshine or something, but I just want to talk to you to get to know you.”
Honesty and humor! You overturn the usual codes of flirting techniques to expose them and lay your cards on the table. We love it!

Here are some surefire examples to use in different contexts to grab the attention of your subject of desire!