Top topics of conversation

How do you choose topics of conversation that will interest a woman? Stereotypes die hard, and it’s common to think that women are only interested in celebrities, fashion and make-up. Yet it’s important to understand that women are interested in a variety of subjects, and have an insatiable thirst for knowledge. Women are curious about everything that’s topical, whether it’s politics, the environment, gossips, sports, nature, pets, art, architecture, history, cars, science, technology, work, festivals, astrology or even gastronomy. As a Lover, you should be able to adapt to your partner’s interests and maintain your general culture.

Talking about sex because it’s the only reason you want to talk to a woman will certainly not get you into bed. Instead, you need to become a champion of the art of conversation. You’ll know your classics and the latest in entertainment. You’ll be up to date on the latest world news, so you’ll never run out of things to talk about. It would be like running out of gas on a road trip. Don’t even think about it!

Already, you’re creating a buzz by tackling unusual questions: what are her strangest experiences, her most perilous adventures, the most unusual things she’s ever done. What would be her wildest dreams, what are her favorite movies, the kind of music she likes, the kind of restaurants she frequents, her ideal cocktail, etc.?

Avoid tackling subjects that are too serious or heavy. You’re not here to feel sorry for the world. Optimism is one of your qualities, and so is humor. And speaking of humor, you’re certainly not required to give a stand-up comedy performance, but if you’ve got a sense of repartee and self-deprecation, now’s the time to use it.

Above all, you need to get away from the usual stereotypes of fashion, decoration, children and so on. Women love fitness, bodybuilding, wellness, travel and exceptional adventures. So be bursting with new ideas. One of the hottest topics right now is TV series. Find out if she’s more Game of Thrones than Downtown Abbey, a little more Homeland than Desperate Housewives. The lover is obviously a resourceful man who will bounce back at any moment of the conversation.