A quick update on foreplay

The famous foreplay… Just hearing this term makes you feel all excited. For many couples, this stage is the starting point for sexual intercourse. Designed to stimulate both partners, foreplay increases desire and almost always leads to penetration for both partners.

Mandatory or not?

Are they really mandatory? Highly recommended, in any case. Rumor has it that foreplay is a bit of a must. One of the quests that leads to the Holy Grail, in short.

Unfortunately, if you view foreplay as an obligation, as a mission to complete before you can get down to business, you risk missing out on intense pleasure (and depriving your partner in the process).

In sexuality, there are no obligations (aside from respect, consent, and communication). If your partner doesn’t enjoy foreplay, there’s no point in spending hours on it. Conversely, if you see that your caresses are really pleasing them, you might as well keep going.

Besides, that your partner likes:

cunnis;
caresses to the nipples;
neck caresses;
the contact of your teeth on his ears;
…

As long as it’s part of a form of mutual pleasure, you’re free to do whatever you want. However, to know what your partner likes, you still need to give them the space to show you or guide you towards their pleasure. If you take over the relationship right away, without any possible openings, you’re sure to miss out on some pleasant discoveries (for your partner, as well as for you).

What is the ideal duration?

Foreplay, yes, but for how long? Again, there are no rules. However, I think it’s important to deconstruct a persistent idea.

For many people (men and women alike), foreplay has to stop at some point before intercourse can begin. But foreplay is intercourse!

Saying you didn’t have sex because you stopped at foreplay is, in my opinion, a mistake. Instead, think of foreplay as an intimate and pleasurable moment that can be combined in many ways, before, during, and even after penetration.

What would stop you, after having enjoyed yourself in missionary, doggy style and then in amazon, from slowly leaving your partner’s intimacy to take the time to caress her again (if that’s what she likes)?

In short… From the moment you find yourself in intimacy with your partner, it is up to you two, and only you two, to define your rules of the game.

Bonus: 6 Things That Turn Women On… For No Reason

Because this article teaches you to think outside the box, here are some (much more classic) points that have the gift of exciting women. Some don’t admit it, others deny it completely, while some still wonder why these things have an effect on them…

You can do whatever you want with it, but remember that foreplay can happen anytime and in any way, as long as the excitement is there. Gentlemen, foreplay can begin anytime when you:

Roll up your shirt sleeves in front of her;
Do the dishes with a cloth over your shoulder;
Run your hands through your hair (as long as it is clean and silky);
Contract your jaws;
Play with your watch;
Tell her how you feel about her (or how she feels about you).

Now that you know, see if these 6 things have an effect on your partner. If you detect a positive reaction and the location allows it, then initiate more intimate contact.