All-consuming passion for one woman

Sometimes a flash, a lightning bolt, a thunderbolt strikes your heart and you find yourself in love with a woman that you can no longer get out of your thoughts… It’s obsessive love! No use talking about another woman or trying to distract yourself with the score of your favorite football team, nothing works. You are hooked, chained, trapped. How did you get to this point?

Nothing is more mysterious than this state of deep love for a person who obsesses us but who shows us no interest. Why not move on, why not reason with ourselves? It is as if an evil spell had been cast on us, and from which we try in vain to escape. She is the woman, the only one, the most beautiful, the most wonderful, the most exceptional, and it suddenly seems that life without this person is no longer worth living.

But even if you are an experienced Lover, a professional Lover even, you are not safe from such a spell. What will you do the day this curse falls on you? Well, you will get out of it thanks to some wise advice, easy to put into practice.

Obviously, the Lover will be tempted, one day or another, to grant a woman such capital importance. Especially since by dint of cultivating his garden of exotic flowers, he will feel the need, like the Little Prince, to elevate one of his flowers to the status of Queen. And this rarity, this exception, in his life will almost certainly correspond to the woman who does not want him, who resists him against all odds. Damn!

As incredible as it may seem, this is often the most common scenario. The Lover, a successful lover, perpetual lover, unrepentant seducer, falls in love with an impossible love for THE woman who doesn’t want him. And she really doesn’t want him, period. She’s really not interested, it’s not even a game. And since the Lover loves challenges, this indifferent goddess becomes the ultimate challenge. She’s our Valmont’s Madame de Tourvel, except this time, the Lover has very little chance of succeeding.

To get out of this bad situation which, although it presents an aspect of exciting masochism, could not be experienced in the long term, it is advisable to damage the image of the said goddess. In order to guarantee your future peace of mind, you will seek to identify all the faults of your precious flower.

She can be as cold as an iceberg, as virulent as a jet of acid in the face, as pedantic as a rooster on his dunghill, as greedy as a fly on an open wound… With such examples, she should already seem less divine to you. Physically, she also hides filthy flaws: her feet stink, she has an ingrown toenail, warts, a nose that is too big, eyes that are close together, lips that are too thin, the tips of her fingers are bitten, her hair is unkempt, her complexion is gray, her teeth are unkempt, her bottom is disproportionate, etc. On the temperament side, there will also be something to criticize. She lacks good manners, she has a vulgar attitude at times, she picks her nose when you are not looking at her, she laughs while squeaking, constantly interrupts people when they are talking… In short, you have a whole range of deplorable observations that you can attribute to her at will.

To finish sabotaging her image, imagine her with the three worst characteristics you have imagined and force this new image into your mind. Then imagine yourself in bed with this beauty turned witch and, if you are normally constituted, you should come to this conclusion: save yourself!