Often, men wonder how to approach and seduce women aged 40 and over. These women, often called Cougars when they are interested in younger men, are sometimes categorized as man-eaters.
Many men wonder how to approach and seduce them. Although every woman is unique, forty-somethings are women who know what they want and don’t have the same expectations as a 25-year-old woman.
Men who have been in relationships with women over 40 have found that they often have a better understanding of their wants and needs, thanks to their life experience. They are often more pragmatic and generally less complicated. So, if you want to seduce a woman over 40, it is important to be comfortable with your own maturity and be willing to approach a woman who may be more experienced than you.
On the other hand, they will wait to meet men who have emotional intelligence. Without taking your head, they will expect you to listen to them, to be attentive but also to show intelligence.
In return, they will be able to satisfy you. Forty-somethings have the experience to take into account the differences between men and women, these differences that often generate misunderstanding and sometimes conflicts.
They are also women who are generally free from external judgments, who are much more confident and who will know how to take good care of you.
Be careful though, women aged forty and over can also be on the defensive because they will have a life that has not always been very rosy. A woman who has had disappointing experiences or that have resulted in failures will not want to relive the same things and may give you a hard time at the beginning of your relationship. However, if you are patient and listen to her, any problem will find a solution much more easily because she will have the desire to move forward and the maturity necessary to know how to question herself.
Women over forty no longer want to worry, they are generally free and independent, they sometimes have children who take up a good part of their time, so they just want to have a good time with someone they trust.
If your wish is just to have a good time in bed with an experienced woman, just be honest at the beginning, and if she shares the same desire, then you will undoubtedly have a great time with her!
Women in their forties are uninhibited and take responsibility for their bodies. They have energy and do not have the same fears as younger women. You will be surprised by the pleasure they will be able to give you.
From this age, women are also more able to understand the difference between sex and love.
Even though women are not made like men and have a hard time separating the two, their experiences have taught them not to talk about love when there is none, and not to wait for it to happen just because sex is going well.
Society teaches women certain codes, but the older they get, the more they realize that these codes are not necessarily valid for everyone, and some will then develop a taste for freedom and pleasure without fear of being judged, without fear of spending moments that just bring them spice and little joys without any other implication. For you gentlemen, these women will be a real source of happiness but they will also help you to progress emotionally, to approach a relationship differently.
Here again, be careful gentlemen, by letting yourself be pampered and having good sex with a cougar, you might be the one who falls in love!