Intense excitement, the attention of a charismatic man, a sparkling ring… What do women really want? What are the ways to give them what they want, and if you can’t, what to do?
Hello dear readers! Today, we are taking the time to write to you to lift the veil on a delicate subject concerning women: their desires! This article will not deal with sexuality, but rather the general aspirations of women.
Whether you are in a relationship in difficulty, single or in the midst of a romantic quest, the following information will be useful to you.
The myth: women always want more!
We are like you, gentlemen.
First of all, let’s start by “talking the truth”! Women are not bottomless pits whose only desire is to suck up: your money, your time and your manhood. No, no and no!
Just like you, gentlemen, women aspire to live a beautiful story where they can feel recognized and loved at their true value. Yes, but the fact is that our way of desiring it is not expressed in the same way as you.
It is often said that women always want more. In this sentence, understand the following: women need more proof of love. All the subtlety of the feminine need lies in this nuance.
Listen to what she doesn’t say
Another point that differentiates you from us – although more and more men are starting to follow this trend – we don’t tell everything!
Why? Because we:
- let’s assume that it’s obvious;
- we don’t always take on what we want;
- we don’t want to come across as the annoying guy on duty.
So yes, why make it simple when you can make it complicated? Don’t get me wrong, our goal is not to teach you telepathy. We just want to be sure and certain that you are THE RIGHT ONE! The one who can understand us with a look, make us laugh when we are sad and above all love us even when we are slightly annoying.
As you will have understood, it is when a woman is silent that you have to be attentive!
What lies behind his desires
Every token of love counts
Now let’s get to the heart of the matter. The saying goes “There is no love, there are only tokens of love” . Ponder this phrase for a moment and imagine that this belief was actually the real truth! If from today on, your only way to show your other half that you love them was to prove it to them. What would you do?
You might start to:
- spend more time with her, if not shower her with gifts;
- take an interest in her charity project, to show her that you support her;
- give him more little gifts to compensate for your absence.
You see where we’re going with this. It’s not about doing exceptional things every day.
Of course, women love love stories, driven by the all-consuming passion of the two lovers. Don’t do anything about it, gentlemen! Passion is fleeting and that’s why it’s so intense. On the other hand, little attentions, listening, support and empathy are strong elements that will remind your other half why she is and remains with you and not someone else.
Knowing that you are invested in the relationship
Are you reassured? Not yet! Good things come to those who wait. If you have reached this point in the article, it is because you are truly looking to understand what women want.
I’ll give you a thousand guesses, gentlemen: THEY WANT TO BE WITH YOU!
What? That’s all! Yes, that’s all, but understand what it implies:
- moments of sharing;
- time for two;
- laughter;
- of confidence;
- attentions.
In short, what a woman wants is to see you give yourself to make the relationship work. Then, each one has their own preferences. Whether Julie likes to walk on the white sand in the middle of February because it’s romantic, whether Adele prefers to meet you in the evening after a long day of work in a chic restaurant in the city, or whether Valentine loves to curl up against you to watch the latest season of The Witcher, these three women all want the same thing, they just express it in a different way!
It’s your turn, my lords! Show her how you really feel. If you’re with her, it must be for a reason, right? That’s exactly what she’s trying to verify!