Pretending to be a chaste seducer

In every form of resistance, there’s a feeling of incomparable pride and haughtiness… but also a sensation of masochistic pleasure that can lead you to a state of unparalleled ecstasy.

For a woman, being courted by a man who resists her advances represents one of the strangest taboos. How (and why) could a man voluntarily and deliberately refuse a woman’s advances? Refuse the promise of an orgasm, the satisfaction of conquering territory? It doesn’t make sense, does it?

Yet being a little naughty, and above all having great self-control, is essential to enjoying the subtle pleasures of the resistance game. Only true Lovers recognize its delicious flavors. An ordinary, vulgar seducer will pounce on the first woman who offers him the opportunity to have sex. The Lover, on the other hand, appreciates variety in his approaches and will never deny himself a little role-playing by pretending to be a modest lover.

The Lover-Saint-Nitouche is a hero in his own way. He knows how to arouse desire in women, while admitting that he enjoys bold flirting, but is more reserved when it comes to getting physically close. However, he won’t reveal this disposition until he’s sufficiently warmed up to the beautiful woman he wants to seduce. What happens next? Well, he becomes chaste. Not for long, of course. It’s just a matter of stoking the fire and making the flames grow, while ensuring that the embers stay hot enough to last.

To begin this dance of “one step forward, one step back”, you need to open the door to physical contact and naughty hints, while knowing how to close it gently, but not completely. You can even be frank and admit to your lady that you’re an expert at prolonging pleasure. This delicious torture could well become an intense and transcendent moment of sharing, and your lover of the moment could also become adept at this game.

The Lover-saint-nitouche loves to see his conquests reach a state of uncontrollable desire. A woman who’s turned on, excited, inflamed – that’s exactly what he’s looking for. He derives near-ecstatic satisfaction and a sense of power, just like the woman who knows she has a man in her thrall for as long as he desires her and this urge is not satisfied. However, we all know that carnal pleasure has an expiration date with every partner who crosses our path and shares our bed.

Gentlemen, if you feel like playing Lover-saint-nitouche, get ready for hours of endless bliss. Every time you’ve concluded a Lover-saint-nitouche session, the sex will be so exhilarating that you may find it hard to return to more conventional conquests. Once you’ve hit the heights, it’s hard to go back down to the masses.