How can you spice up your sex life as a couple?

To maintain a sexually fulfilling relationship, it’s important to vary your pleasures. Routine can quickly settle into a couple’s sex life and become boring. So it’s vital to explore new ideas, positions and sensations to stimulate excitement and keep the passion alive.

When it comes to coming up with new ideas, there are no limits, as long as it remains consensual and respectful of each other’s limits. It’s crucial to communicate with your partner about your desires, fantasies and limits to avoid any embarrassment or discomfort.

There are many ways to vary your sexual pleasures, such as using erotic toys, role-playing, exploring tantric sex, and much more. The important thing is to stay open-minded and not be afraid to try new things to spice up your sex life.

Although your sex life may weaken with time and habit, this doesn’t have to mean that you’re doomed to a monotonous, disappointing sex life. By exploring new erotic avenues and remaining attentive to your own desires and those of your partner, you could discover new dimensions of your sexuality and strengthen your bond of love.

Everyday life, work, children, stress and worries can easily take their toll on your sex life. However, it’s important to understand that the health and well-being benefits of sex are real. To recapture the passion and ardor of your early days, it’s time to explore new sexual practices and get out of your comfort zone.

There are plenty of ways to explore new sexual pleasures. You can try new erotic games, new fantasies, new positions, new places, or even the use of sex toys. The most important thing is to communicate with your partner and make sure you’re both comfortable with the new practices you’re considering.

Let your imagination and creativity run wild. By exploring new sensations, you could discover new dimensions of your sexuality and your relationship as a couple.

Let’s explore them together.

• StimulationIn order to have sex and experience the thrill of it, you have to stimulate yourself and her. This happens at every moment of everyday life. You have to awaken each other’s senses. Touch each other, for example. Whether in a restaurant, on public transport, waiting for the bus, it doesn’t matter. If she’s standing next to you, stroke her hair, kiss her, grab the back of her neck. In short, create a physical contact that might move her. These little everyday gestures may seem trivial, but they’re what will fuel your desires.

Look at yourself with desire, take the time to perfume yourself, in short, awaken your senses and hers at every opportunity.

• Explore your fantasiesPerhaps she has unfulfilled fantasies, and vice versa. But you still need to talk about them. So don’t be afraid to ask for some dirty talk and let your imagination run wild – by message, for example, when you’re at work – and reveal your naughtiest fantasies to each other, then make them come true.
• The SM for example. Maybe she’d like to be tied up in bed, or would like to give you a good spanking? Don’t limit yourself and be open to her desires. Of course, if certain practices don’t appeal to you, say so and agree to talk about them freely.
• It can also beexhibitionism. Make love in public places, put yourself in danger, it can be very exciting and generate a great libido.
• Use sex toys. Incorporating objects into your sex life can be very stimulating and take you out of your comfort zone. Re-discover yourself and don’t take yourself for granted.
• A 3-way plan. As long as both of you are on board, of course, because you don’t want one of you to be a little reluctant, which could turn into a fiasco and drive you further apart. Talk it over freely and come to an agreement. With another man? Another woman? What are the conditions to avoid jeopardizing your relationship?
• Paraphilia such as erotic erotic asphyxia for example. At the moment of orgasm, lightly strangling your partner or being strangled can increase the pleasure of orgasm tenfold and be very exciting.
• Use food while you’re making love can be super erotic and boosting because you’re stimulating several senses at once. It could be covering yourself in something you like, like liquid chocolate or caramel sauces, or even spreading erotic foods like oysters or strawberries on your body. Don’t limit yourself and indulge yourself.
• Film yourself can also spice up your married life. As well as being super-exciting in the moment, you can watch the video together afterwards for even more pleasure and desire. There’s no need to play trashy porn, just be yourself and it’ll be perfect.
• And why not try your hand at role-playing? Whether it’s swapping your personas – she’s the man, you’re the woman – or embodying your fantasies in celebrities, or simply playing the boss and her novice trainee. In short, explore the characters you could be.
• Keeping the flame alive: all practices can be carried out at different times, the main thing being to take time and energy to work on your desire while having fun. Let her take the initiative too, let yourself be seduced as on the first day and seduce her with the same vigor. Don’t take for granted what you’ve got, and have fun!