How to prepare for a first date

You’ve got a date, that’s great! Now it’s all up to you, so it’s essential to pay attention to every detail so as not to spoil the occasion. Here are 12 points to bear in mind for a successful first date.

1. Take care of your look: it’s important to be clean and well-dressed to make a good impression on your date. Opt for a casual outfit, with clean, well-styled hair. If you have a beard, make sure it’s well trimmed. Add a small, original accessory that will arouse interest and show off your personality.
2. Time: being on time is a sign of respect for your date.
3. The location: choose a place that suits both your personalities and shared interests. Avoid places that are too noisy or too dark.
4. The telephone: turn off your cell phone or put it on silent mode. There’s nothing ruder than constantly checking your phone during a meeting.
5. Attention: listen to your date and show that you’re interested in what she has to say. Avoid talking about yourself all the time.
6. Humor: a touch of humor can be an asset, but avoid vulgar or tasteless jokes.
7. Compliments: give sincere compliments, but don’t overdo it.
8. Politeness: be polite and respectful to your date and any other people you may meet during your appointment.
9. Body language: adopt an open, positive body language, with regular eye contact.
10. Alcohol: don’t drink too much or you’ll lose control of yourself.
11. Expectations: don’t be too hasty and let things happen naturally. Avoid excessive expectations on this first date.
12. The right moment: when you feel that the date is coming to an end, find an appropriate moment to propose a next meeting.