How do you build your image as a lover on the Internet?

It’s the key to success in online dating. Here are a few tips to help you do just that.

First of all, you must avoid promoting yourself by using photos of your sex. This technique is ineffective and even counter-productive. In fact, a man’s gender is not an asset in itself to attract a woman, unless you’re already attracted to the man in question. It’s therefore preferable to choose profile photos that highlight his personality, passions and activities.

Next, it’s important to have a polished, original presentation. Word choice, syntax and grammar are crucial to conveying a positive self-image. It’s advisable to be enthusiastic, positive, cultured and a little mysterious. The aim is to make women want to find out more about you.

Finally, it’s important to be active and enterprising when seeking contacts. Don’t hesitate to initiate discussions, ask interesting questions and show interest in the woman’s interests. It’s also important not to rush into sexual topics at the start of a conversation.

In short, to build a lover’s image on the Internet, you need to be neat, original and active in your search for contacts, while being respectful and attentive to the interests of the woman in front of you.

To start a virtual relationship, it’s important to look after your online image and stand out from the other men on dating sites. Here are the rules to follow:

Your photo: this is the first thing women will see of you. Avoid photos of your sex, whether flaccid or erect, as they convey a crude and unattractive image. Women are more attracted to charm than sex. If you don’t want to be perceived as a mere sex object, show off your assets by posting a photo of yourself in a rewarding context, such as doing something you enjoy.

Your personality : a photo of you in a setting that’s special to you, or doing something you love, can show your personality and make you stand out from the crowd. It could be a mountain hike or an evening of cooking. It shows that you’re active and interesting. In short, it’s important to look after your online image to attract women’s attention and make them want to chat with you.

How to approach a woman for the first time online? Once again, even if you’re just looking for sex, be elegant. It’s best to avoid “t’es bonne” or “t dispo ce soir j’ai envie de te la mettre”. Show some manners! Start with a relevant opening line: look at the girl’s profile and find something that will allow you to get to the heart of the matter, as opposed to the classic “Hi, how are you?

Continue the discussion: take an interest in what she likes to get to know her a little. The idea here is to get her curious about you, so she’ll want to know more. Don’t hesitate to start conversations to intrigue her and offer to “talk about it later, come back to it next time, clarify face-to-face with pleasure”
Here, we’re not looking to get to know each other in depth, but to satisfy your interlocutor sufficiently and intrigue her slightly for it to lead to a date.

Propose a date:we can’t stress this enough, all these rules need to be shaped and adapted with common sense according to the woman you’re dealing with. Contrary to what coaching websites generally communicate, all women are different and don’t expect the same things from men. We’re no longer in the 1930s, when women’s roles were socially determined, and it was therefore simpler to respond to the codes that society itself defined for women. Today, personalities, genders and types of people are blending, and you’re faced with a plurality that can seem abysmal. It’s all about adapting to who you think you’re dealing with. So there are no rules for THE right time to propose a date. You have to feel. But overall, the seduction phase needs to be well underway, there needs to be some intrigue and a hint of desire already, but you can’t wait too long for a virtual conversation to blow over. It’s all about the right balance.

The image you build up on the Internet to succeed in getting dates depends on the context and the type of woman you’re meeting. But it’s all about being intriguing, interesting, elegant and a little mischievous.