It’s important to point out that the practice of fellatio is becoming increasingly accepted and valued in today’s society. It has even become a common practice in couples’ sex lives, and is often seen as a way of exploring new pleasures and strengthening intimacy in a relationship.
Despite this, there are still taboos and prejudices surrounding fellatio, particularly with regard to gender roles and associated social expectations. Some men may still see fellatio as proof of domination or submission on the part of the woman, while some women may feel obliged to perform fellatio to satisfy their partner without feeling any pleasure in return. It is therefore important to remember that the practice of fellatio must be consensual and done with mutual respect for both partners.
Both people need to be comfortable with the practice and feel able to give and receive pleasure without feeling obliged or forced. What’s more, it’s important to remember that female pleasure in oral sex is just as intense as male pleasure, whether in the giving or receiving of it. In short, fellatio is a sexual practice that is gaining in acceptance and popularity in contemporary society. However, there are still stereotypes and preconceived ideas to be deconstructed so that everyone can explore their sexuality in complete freedom and with respect for themselves and others.
Female pleasure in oral sex is just as intense as male pleasure. Whether in the act or in the reception.
Not all women like to perform oral sex, of course, just as not all women like cauliflower. On the other hand, and just as we don’t like cauliflower at every meal, there are times when a woman may feel like giving her guy a blow job and others when she doesn’t. There aren’t really any rules. Also, you might want to have oral sex with this man, but not with that man.
The best way to identify this is to communicate openly about your sexual preferences and ask your partner about them. The key to good sexual fulfillment is the freedom to express your preferences without judgment with your partner. Although women are often portrayed as being reluctant to perform oral sex, it can actually bring enormous pleasure to the person performing it. As well as giving pleasure to her partner, it can be very exciting. These preconceived ideas often stem from pornographic or cinematographic representations of oral sex. We’ve all seen the scene where a guy pushes his conquest’s head down so that she can suck his penis, or once the penis is in his mouth, pushes his head in mechanically. These images may seem innocuous, but they mentally sculpt the relationship between the sexes towards this practice. For men, it’s a pleasure that has to be forced. For women, it’s a practice that’s imposed on them, and therefore unenviable.
All these stereotypes need to be deconstructed if you are to enjoy satisfying oral sex.
Once fellatio has been sanitized as just another sexual practice, there are plenty of ways and means of practicing and experimenting with your partners. For example, Cambodian blowjobs are performed with hot tea in the mouth. It moistens and warms the penis and gives great pleasure. Some people also like to add a flavor – alcoholic, for example – to the man’s sex to make the practice tasty for everyone. So much to experiment with. The place where it takes place is also a source of pleasure. Oral sex in the car (albeit dangerous) is highly satisfying and exciting, since the context is so special. Sitting, standing, lying down, experiment!
And above all, don’t hesitate to communicate as much as possible with your partners for healthy and liberated intercourse!