The art of sexting

How to excite your partner from a distance? Sexting is the practice of sending naughty, even explicit, messages to your partner via social networks or SMS. It’s a fun and exciting way to keep the flame of your relationship alive even when you’re far away from each other.

To be effective, sexting must be well balanced and adapted to your partner’s personality and tastes. It’s important not to go too far, and to respect each other’s limits.

Sexting can be used as a game of seduction and discovery. By taking the time to discover your partner’s fantasies and desires, you can create even greater complicity and intimacy.

It’s also important to take into account the frequency and time of day of sexting. If your partner is busy at work or asleep, it may not be well received. So it’s best to respect the times when your partner is available and attentive to your messages.

How do I get a woman excited by text message? It’s a question that can arise before a date or to keep the flame alive in your long-distance relationship. Sexting can be an effective technique for stimulating her desire and spicing up your sex life.

But it’s important to remember that communication must always be respectful and consensual. You need to be sure that the other person is comfortable with this kind of exchange, and not make them feel uncomfortable. Respecting their limits and choices is essential.

As far as timing is concerned, evenings can be a good time for sexting. The person may be more available and relaxed, ready to indulge in fantasies. It can be exciting to receive a naughty message at bedtime, imagining what it might be like if it were real.

However, it’s important to be aware of your partner’s sexting preferences. Some people prefer more suggestive and subtle messages, while others are more comfortable with more explicit texts. Listen to your partner’s reactions and adjust your approach according to his or her preferences.

In short, sexting can be a fun and exciting way to explore your sexuality with your partner, as long as you respect their limits and know their preferences.

Being naughty doesn’t mean being vulgar. You can be, of course, but it’s a question of timing. Don’t start off by telling her that the idea of having your penis deep inside her drives you crazy with desire. Not that it’s a bad idea in itself, but before you get to that point, you need to set the stage so that it turns her on too, rather than assaulting her. Start with short messages referring to what you like about her. Be subtle. Without even naming the thing itself, but suggesting it. Why suggest? A man who suggests gives off the impression of being subtle verbally and therefore also in bed. A man who takes his time, cares for his partner and builds desire to a crescendo is bound to be a good lover.

Take her temperature. If she responds very briefly, maybe you’re bothering her. Leave the conversation open. If, on the other hand, you feel she’s receptive and responds quickly, it’s time to turn on the 5th.

Take it one step at a time. Short, naughty messages.

“I think back to your story about (blabla), I see your mouth telling it, it makes me want to”.
Short, thin, referring to a moment you shared, and it eroticizes the memory. You see his mouth in action and it excites you.

“I’m hungry, I’m going to dinner. Lucky for you you’re not around…”

The idea is to be overtly naughty, but always suggestive. Increase the degree gradually. Go from a subtle or even ambiguous message, to an overtly sexy one, to a much more visual one.

In four words: turn up the heat! Make your clothes pop!

It’s up to you to try things out, but also to use unsuccessful experiences as ways of exercising yourself, as tests for experimentation. Don’t see the “winds” you take as failures, but as opportunities to test yourself. Let’s get started!