Finding the right techniques to drive a woman wild with desire may seem complex to some, but it can be a breeze if you know what she likes. There’s no magic formula for turning a woman on, because every person is different and unique. However, there are certain techniques you can use to arouse her senses and send shivers of pleasure down her spine.
The first thing to do is to create an atmosphere that awakens the senses. A warm, romantic setting is ideal for creating an atmosphere of relaxation and well-being. Subdued lighting, scented candles and soft music can help relax your partner and prepare her for intimate moments.
Next, be attentive to her needs and desires. Take the time to get to know her and understand what turns her on. Women appreciate men who take the time to listen and understand them. Show her that you’re listening to her needs and desires, and don’t hesitate to ask her questions to get to know her better.
Finally, be creative and don’t be afraid to experiment with new things. Women love men who are willing to think outside the box and try new things. You can offer sensual massages, try out new sexual positions, use erotic toys or explore other forms of sensual pleasure.
In short, to make a woman go crazy with desire, it’s important to create an atmosphere conducive to arousing the senses, to be attentive to her needs and not to be afraid to experiment with new things. By being creative and attentive, you can be sure of offering her intense, unforgettable moments of pleasure.
Often considered a form of magic, arousing desire in a woman can seem like a real challenge. Unlike men, women don’t always have a persistent, insistent desire, except at times of hormonal peak. In men, desire can be seen as mechanical, programmed to manifest itself at the first opportunity. In women, on the other hand, desire must first be intellectualized before it spreads throughout the body, finally reaching the erogenous zones and making its way to the brain, activating the ignition.
The slowness of this process may discourage many a man, but a seasoned lover doesn’t let it get him down. He knows exactly how to arouse a woman’s desire and, above all, how to adapt to each individual woman. After all, every woman is unique and reacts differently to erotic stimuli. So it’s important to understand your partner, recognize her preferences and adapt your strategy accordingly. The true lover knows how to establish an emotional connection with his partner and how to make her feel comfortable and confident, allowing her desire to flourish.
The romantic: If your conquest is a romantic, you need to be a director. A sort of magician of context, an artist of mise en bouche, a master of illusion. You’ll have read a few Harlequin-style novels beforehand, so as to fully understand the angelic spirit of the romantic. You’ll ask her about her dreams. An extraordinary beach, a mountain chalet, a weekend in Venice and so on. A chic restaurant, a cosy atmosphere, outings to museums, the opera, the great theaters, etc. You have to create a fairytale around her, in which you are the hero. It’s Belle who enters the Beast’s library. The romantic will grant you all the pleasures of sex if you build around her the world that makes her want to be accessible.
La dragueuse: Your feminine alter ego. Who’s chasing whom? Seduction nirvana. The flirt is unpredictable, has more than one string to her bow and is a virtuoso in the art of reaching her target. You might think it’s going to be easy, since you’re both looking for the same thing. But never forget that a flirt doesn’t like it easy. For her, to conquer without peril is to triumph without glory! Once again, it’s a balancing act. By turns hunter and game, you have to count your successes, foil her strategies and devise increasingly complex traps. The first to fall will be greedily devoured. It’s up to you to decide which side you want to be on.
The adventuress: Hesitant but full of desire, the adventuress is a road trip all her own. She doesn’t know where she’s going, but she’s going. To succeed in seducing this rascal with whom everything is possible, consent or refusal, you’ll have to play finely. The same game she plays, in fact. You’ll be equally indecisive, always ready to follow her, but jumping on the brakes when it’s time to close the deal. She needs to know that you’re a little afraid. That’s what turns her on, the possibility that you might refuse. And at the most unexpected moment, you kiss her…
The tease: Watch out for the tease. First and foremost, she’s the one playing with your fire. Her ultimate goal is to set you ablaze before dumping a bucket of ice-cold water in your face. So you need to take the lead by making yourself inaccessible. Fight fire with fire. To get the spark from you to her, you have to resist, not fall into her trap. If the tease fails to make you drool with desire, she’ll really start to want you. Because you’re not playing her game. And that’s impossible for her. She’ll want you at all costs, and you’ll play the scared guy against all odds. In the end, she’ll be the one to jump on you, just to put out the fire under her skirt.
The nymphomaniac: The nympho is the woman of every average man’s dreams. There’s no need to warm her up, she’s already ready, no doubt because her body produces a phenomenal amount of testosterone for a female subject, and the mere sight of your fly is enough to set her on fire. A well-placed sexy proposal and you’re on your way to the fiesta in her panties.