Flirting in the workplace

The office can be a fertile ground for seduction for some. However, it’s a well-known fact that most stories of infidelity begin at work. Given that we spend around a third of our time at the office, it’s easy to get involved with our colleagues more often than our partner. To flirt at the office, it’s important to have a pleasant presence, to be available to the person you want to charm and to smile effectively.

However, it’s important to note that it’s possible to find someone who’s already in a relationship. In this case, the Lover could get into trouble. If the Lover is only looking for a fleeting fling, the office may be the ideal place.

What are women like in the office? Rivalry! For promotion, for more responsibility, for more respect, whatever, women in the office need not only to perform, but to shine. And to shine, you need to be noticed. And the more suitors a woman has, the happier she is. And the happier she is, the more likely she is to give in to one of them.

So how do you stand out? By being the most sincere of all. As a result, you become Madame’s knight in shining armor. Does she need a form, a file, to post a letter, a coffee? You’re the one who has the form or file in question, you’re on your way out and you pass a mailbox, you’re on your way to get a coffee and you’ll be happy to bring her one.

If you have the opportunity, either because you’re a decision-maker or because you have a good relationship with decision-makers, ask to work in tandem with her on certain files, for example. You’ll then have a free hand to approach her. If she’s your superior, be her best, most efficient employee.

In the office, unless you’re really unfriendly, a woman can’t refuse to talk to you because you’re colleagues. Already, you share a bond of belonging to the same company, so there’s something that brings you closer together. Making yourself indispensable in this woman’s eyes is a real pleasure, a quest of absolute simplicity. It won’t be difficult, and shouldn’t be complex either, unless she already has someone in her life. And she’ll find that out soon enough if she guesses your intentions.

If she’s not single but seems unhappy in her personal life, there’s nothing to stop you digging deeper and becoming her confidant. If, however, she seems to be fulfilled in her intimate life, you could, by insisting, get involved in a dead-end affair that could leave you wounded if you really get attached to this woman. So the important thing for you is to assess whether the effort is really worth it.

If she’s single, it’s a no-brainer! Your greatest challenge will be to seduce her, and since you’re already 50% of the way there, since she’s working with you, all you have to do is water your rose so that it opens only for you.