Know how to identify women open to dating

Knowing how to identify women who are open to dating is essential to avoid unnecessary rejection. This requires observation and subtlety. Some women give obvious signs of openness, such as pointed glances, flirtatious smiles, or obvious body language. Others are more discreet and require closer observation of their behavior, such as their body language, manner of speaking, or receptiveness to conversation. In general, it’s important to be respectful and not push the issue if the woman shows signs of disinterest or unavailability.

In the past, it was easy for a man to tell if a woman was already married by the wedding ring she wore. But today, women are financially and emotionally independent. Yet, the Lover must still know how to identify women he can approach without harassing them. With the ubiquity of street harassment and assaults on public transportation, it is crucial for the Lover to exercise discernment. He must know the difference between approaching a woman to say something nice and groping her while treating her vulgarly. The Lover knows that the line between these two behaviors is important and strives to respect women in all circumstances.

That said, it’s normal for women to be increasingly wary, or simply to no longer find it charming to be approached in public places, even if it’s with the best intentions in the world. Therefore, gentlemen, keep your eyes peeled. The best way to counteract this problem is simply to impose yourself where your presence will be reassuring.

Be on the lookout for this type of behavior in other guys and rush to the aid of women who are being bullied, whether in gestures or words. Few women will not be comforted by your intervention. From that moment on, you will create the bridge that leads you to her. Since you will no longer be perceived as a potential threat, she will open up to you, feeling indebted. You must take advantage (without abusing it) of this state of gratitude to establish a dialogue and why not invite her for a drink or a coffee to help her recover from her emotions. If she already has a boyfriend, she will probably refuse. If she is single or not seriously attached, she will probably follow you to prolong this moment of security with you.

Sometimes the best approach strategies are in the simple things or in the small everyday events that make life a real ordeal for some people. The Lover will seize all these occurrences, not only taking advantage of them to rise above the mass of ordinary aggressors thanks to his Good Samaritan behavior, but he also contributes to cleaning up the public space.

Another essential thing is that the Lover doesn’t act like this for his own benefit; he believes it’s the only acceptable attitude. The Lover is an evolved, civilized specimen, superior to other males who still behave like retards around women. There’s no question of him forcing a conversation with a woman who throws him defensive glances. There’s no question of him daring to make inappropriate gestures or words. The Lover loves women more than anything and respects them in their consents as well as in their refusals. A respectable man charms and seduces. He never imposes, never coerces. And you are that man.