First of all, why identify mental fragility in a woman? Because, as a Lover in the making, you don’t want to engage in something that could be destructive to you or to your interlocutor, without realizing it. You have great class and want everything to go well for everyone.
Mental fragility in a woman can manifest itself in different ways, and while it doesn’t make a wonderful and captivating relationship impossible, it’s important to identify it so you know if you feel capable of dealing with what may come from it.
Mental fragility can be difficult to define. We all have sensitive areas, places that, when stimulated or activated by our interlocutors, can hurt us or make us react. These are fragilities that are sometimes difficult to manage, but which make us unique beings. In this sense, they are also our strengths, because they distinguish us from the person next to us.
Mental fragility is when these characteristics that make us who we are, our sensitive points, escape us and we can no longer control ourselves when they are activated, making us very vulnerable.
This vulnerability can be detected by several things.
- First of all, how is this woman in her life? Does she have a job? Is she professionally active? Does she seem fulfilled? We spend so much time at work that taking a look from that side can really help you target your interlocutor.
- Diet. For many people, diet is an indicator of mental balance or not. Does she seem to have a proper diet or does she seem anorexic? Bulimic? Unbalanced?
- When sleeping with her, do you find her restless? Could you say that she has trouble sleeping or not at all? Does she wake up frequently? Or does she sleep through the night?
- Does she consume excessively? Whether it is alcohol, tobacco, medication?
- Does she dwell on the past a lot or does she speculate endlessly about the future, cutting herself off from the present?
- Is she rigid in her way of discussing? Does she seem to be stuck in her ways?
- Is she uncomfortable with compliments? Congratulations or encouragement?
- Does she seem resigned to you? Does she give up on things quickly? Does she lack vital energy or power to act?
- And a very important criterion, does she seem lonely to you? Loneliness leads to states of intense emotional dependence, which are not always (not often) linked to the person on whom one becomes dependent, but simply to the fact of having someone. A phenomenon that is often observed among isolated immigrants, for example.
If you answered yes to many of these questions, you are probably dealing with a fragile woman. It’s up to you to decide whether you can accept her fragility, perhaps even if it appeals to you, otherwise, follow your path to cause the least possible damage to everyone!