The first night with your date is coming to an end… It’s still early and you don’t want to leave her at all. Apparently, neither does she. Finally, you both end up at her place, watching a movie that clearly serves as an excuse to be against each other on the couch.

If you’re not at her place, maybe you ended the evening by exchanging a long look, a few centimeters from her lips… To finally say “We remember!”. Once back home, only one question obsesses you: did she want to sleep with me?

In this article, we’ll explore whether or not women want to have sex on the first date!

Yes, why not?

Long live the 21st century!

How far away are the days when men and women courted each other for moons and moons, waiting frantically for the chance to steal a kiss on the hand from their betrothed. Although some romantics resist the speed of the 21st century, the fashion is for flash encounters, which “match” quickly.

So why hold back? It is increasingly accepted to meet in the hope of satisfying, after a few drinks, shared urges illuminated by a beautiful subdued light.

So… Yes! Women want to sleep with you on the first date, or at least they don’t want to deprive themselves of doing so if the urge to meet you more intimately arises.

Live in the present moment

For many women, ending a great night out with the excuse that you “shouldn’t sleep with someone on the first date” is the best way to ruin the beauty of the moment. Whether you’ve spent days chatting or you feel like jumping straight into language games, follow your desires!

If you feel like she wants it. Especially if she shows it to you… Go for it (if you want to too of course). You might even be pleasantly surprised by your partner’s initiative.

Once again, yes! Women sleep together on the first date when they want to live in the moment.

No, no and no if…

She wants to make herself desired

On the other hand, women may also want to make the pleasure last:

• because they don’t want to give up too quickly;
• because they don’t feel like it right now;
• because they want to test you;
• because their last experiences went badly…

There are a number of reasons why a woman might refuse to sleep with you on the first date. One of the most common is this: they want to build up desire!

There is nothing more unpleasant than giving yourself to someone and then never hearing from them again. Whether you are already attached to the person or not, the feeling of being treated like a tissue (that you throw away after use) is AS UNPLEASANT AS POSSIBLE!

In these cases, the answer is no. Women don’t want to sleep with someone on the first night, when they want to make the seduction phase last.

She wants to show you that she is a “good girl”

If the weight of society and what people will say weighs on all the citizens of this pretty little world, you cannot deny your desires in the long term. Unless you become a robot, you are driven by desires that you wish to satisfy… Your partner too!

Nowadays, women are increasingly demanding the right to please themselves. In short, gender equality is also found under the covers (in theory at least). While more and more women would like to treat themselves to the luxury of sleeping together on the first night, because they want to, certain obstacles can put a stop to this wonderful desire to make it happen with you.

If saying yes feels like an easy girl and all that, in your partner’s mind, she’s likely to take it upon herself. The fear of judgment may be so great that she’ll want to wait until the third date to get it right.

You will have understood, no, women do not want to sleep with someone on the first night when they think they will pass for an easy girl.

Everyone has their own love story!

Trust your feelings

There you are, both snuggled up against each other, and you’re dying to run your hand over her buttocks or her breasts… That’s when your brain starts to think:

• and if she pushes me away;
• and if I didn’t please him;
• and what if she takes me for a pervert!

In these times, seduction can be seen as a hyper-complex strategy aimed, for you gentlemen, at showing your desires without “harassing” your suitor. It’s all a question of balance:

• to be romantic, without being silly;
• be a bad boy, without being an asshole;
• be accessible, but not too much!

In short, while the moment seems right to make it happen… Nothing is more certain! In these moments, you will have to call on your intuition. As you have seen above, each woman has “good reasons” to sleep with you on the first night and “very good reasons” not to do so.

If you’ve made it this far in the evening, chances are you’ll like your date… For the rest, pay attention to his attitude!

Pay attention…and talk to him

Is she glued to you? Has she asked you for a massage? Is she trying to get away? Women say so many things without opening their mouths. Take the time to observe your partner’s attitude.

The devil is in the details!

• The lady is wearing a transparent outfit.
• She is trying to draw you against her.
• The film that is playing in front of you shows very explicit scenes.

Of course, wearing a slightly transparent shirt on a date doesn’t always mean “take me!” In seduction, it’s often a question of subtlety, especially since the phases of doubt and hesitation also increase the tension.

Remember that you are free to act and express yourself, even in a moment like this. Especially in a moment like this. Sometimes, a few well-chosen words are enough to gauge your partner’s desire.

In any case, remember that no two stories are exactly alike. Women, like men, have desires, urges, but also fears and beliefs that can put them off spending a carnal moment with their partner. If you had a good evening… If the feeling was good… Whether or not you sleep together on the first night will not diminish your partner’s desire… Quite the contrary.