A few tips on 3-way plans

Is the 3-way plan a good idea or not?

To answer this question, it’s important to remember that a threesome should be a decision taken by all three of you. It should not be a fallback solution to satisfy the selfish desires of just one partner.

It’s also important to bear in mind that threesomes can be complicated to implement. You need to find two people who are willing to participate, who have similar desires and expectations, and who trust each other.

So, if you’re considering a threesome, it’s essential to communicate well with your partner and make sure you’re both comfortable with the idea and have the same expectations. You should never force the other person to accept this experience.

Finally, it’s important to remember that a threesome should be a consensual, respectful and safe sexual experience. This means taking the time to discuss rules, limits and protection against sexually transmitted infections.

For an ordinary couple, threesomes can be real traps, often leading to break-ups. There have been many cases of couples breaking up after experimenting with threesomes. The man may believe he has control over his naughty encounters, not realizing that his partner may end up running off with the other person, whether male or female, who served as their sexual partner.

The Lover, on the other hand, has nothing to lose if he has no intention of making a serious commitment to his partner. For him, threesomes are an absolutely delightful fantasy. But how do you convince your partner to include a second woman in a torrid night? Threesomes usually involve another woman, so it’s a tricky question.

The Lover knows that not all his future conquests will be interested in this kind of naughty activity. He’ll need to choose his threesome partners carefully, ideally bisexual women, flexible heterosexuals or even lesbians.

The Lover knows he has to be selective in his choice of partners for a threesome. He can frequent bars or places where people are open-minded, or extend his search to online dating sites. However, he’ll want to avoid swingers clubs, as they offer more opportunities for melangists than triolists, unless he’s accompanied by a partner.

Once the Lover has found his two partners, he needs to create the ideal atmosphere for a torrid three-way evening. This could be a weekend in a mountain chalet, a few days in a hotel by the beach or a city getaway. He needs to choose a place that’s exotic, but also comfortable and reassuring, to avoid any tension or discomfort.

As master of ceremonies, you’ll create a playful, sexy atmosphere by choosing lounge or sensual music. You’ll offer appetizers or tapas, as well as cocktails or wine to set a relaxed, intimate mood. You’ll steer the conversation towards juicy topics and ask risqué questions to warm up the atmosphere. You could also suggest games such as the adult version of the bottle or strip poker to add a touch of excitement.