How do you take a conversation into sexual territory?

It’s a question many people ask themselves. Sexualizing a discussion is about introducing themes related to sex and sensuality in a subtle and gradual way, so that the other person feels comfortable and confident.

To do this, it’s important to listen carefully to the other person and find natural openings to slip in hints or suggestive suggestions. This can be done through compliments on one’s appearance, comments on life’s pleasures or allusions to past experiences.

It’s also important to be respectful and not to force things. If the other person seems uninterested or uncomfortable, it’s best not to insist. Sexualizing a conversation should be done naturally, gradually and respectfully, so that both parties feel comfortable and confident.

It’s important to note that sexualizing a discussion should be approached with tact and caution. It’s essential to observe the person in front of you carefully to find out whether he or she is comfortable with this type of conversation. The way he or she dresses, gestures and expresses himself or herself can give an indication of his or her personality and willingness to talk about sex.

If you notice that she’s reluctant to talk about this subject, it’s best to take it slowly. You can try to broach lighter subjects, such as fantasies or past experiences, without ever forcing the conversation. It’s important to respect the other person’s limits and not make them feel uncomfortable.

If, on the other hand, you feel she’s comfortable and open to discussion, you can be more frank. However, it’s always important to remain respectful and not to go too far in sexualizing the conversation. The aim is to explore sexuality in a positive and playful way, without ever putting the other person in an uncomfortable position.

In short, sexualizing a discussion can be an excellent way of getting to know the other person better, but it must be approached with tact and respect.

With all girls: Be delicate. Don’t stare at her breasts while drooling, even though sweeping your eyes over them can be exciting for a woman. She needs to feel your desire, but not be overwhelmed by it. Complimenting her on her physical attributes can take the discussion into the realm of the carnal. But not just any physical attributes! Don’t start by saying that her breasts make you want her or that she has a nice ass. Build things up gradually. You can tell her that she has a beautiful mouth, or that she’s been generously served by nature and that her hair is magnificent. Take elements of her body that are sensual but not vulgar. Be sincere: what do you like about her? Think about it.

With a reserved girl: If you feel that she’s not bouncing back, that she’s shyly thanking you, don’t rush her, even if it means being sincere and asking her: “I hope I’m not embarrassing you, but I really like the way your hair is styled, I think it’s sexy”. Depending on her answer, you’ll see how you can adapt to what she tells you. Observing her body is the key to understanding her intentions.

With a girl at ease: If the woman in front of you seems receptive, it’s easy to identify. If you tell her about her hair and she tells you it’s soft to the touch too, or about her mouth and she tells you her beauty is matched only by her softness, she’s inviting you into the game of wide-open sexual discussion. In that case, don’t hesitate, go for it.

Don’t hesitate, if you feel the ground is hard to reach, to verbalize what you think about sexual discussions. That’s not to say that it’s the only thing you’re interested in, but that it’s obviously part of the whole, of who she is, and that it’s this whole that interests you, the sex among the rest.

Sex is as much a part of us as any other subject, and even if it’s socially difficult to talk about, it’s a big part of our lives. Assuming it can be a quality for the woman in front of you, especially if you play it down.