Focus on erogenous zones, those parts of the body that, when stimulated, can cause intense sexual arousal. Erogenous zones are different for each individual and can vary in intensity depending on sexual preferences and past experiences.
Classic erogenous zones include the genitals, nipples, lips, neck, and ears. However, some people may find erotic stimulation in less conventional parts of the body, such as the feet, hands, buttocks, or even hair.
It is important to understand that the stimulation of erogenous zones can be both physical and psychological. The emotional context and trust between partners also play an important role in sexual arousal. Thus, it is essential to communicate with your partner to discover what their erogenous zones are and how to stimulate them in an effective and pleasant way for both parties.
To achieve orgasm, the famous, the great, the unique one, it is not enough to put your hand on our clitoris and turn in all directions.
To reach nirvana, you must first be willing to receive it and for that, you must be “put in the mouth”. That is to say, be excited so that it rises little by little until reaching orgasm.
To get there, several erogenous zones can help you drive us crazy with desire AND pleasure. Here is a little list for you gentlemen.
- The mouth: a successful kiss, that’s what whets the appetite. A sensual, delicate, fiery kiss, it all depends on the moment but the mouth is one of the most erogenous zones there is.
- The neck: ouch, ouch, ouch, by stimulating a woman’s neck, you can drive her completely crazy. The skin there is thin and therefore very sensitive. A breath, a caress, a kiss or even a light bite and the machine starts up.
- Hair: some girls have their hearts between their thighs, others have their hearts in their hair. In addition to being very relaxing, a scalp massage or a sensual grip of her hair in your hand can be very erotic.
- The palm of the hand : Gently brushing your fingers and nails against the palm of your hand, at a meal, in the street or even in bed, can cause all sorts of delicious gurgling sounds all over your body.
- The feet: and yes, a foot massage stimulates the nervous system and therefore can become very erotic, provided that it does not turn into tickling and therefore cause the opposite effect! Be careful.
- The ear : to nibble, lick, blow into it gently, go around the cavity with your tongue, in short, so many practices to indulge in with what I would willingly call the “lobmasutra”.
- The back: a back massage to start foreplay is both relaxing and erotic. Same during the act, pressure on the back, caresses, any kind of stimulation of the back area can open and increase desires for pleasure.
- Hips : Being caressed on the hips, grabbed by the hips, kissed on the hips can be a vector of great sensuality and considerably increase desire and therefore pleasure.
- The brain: and yes! Stimulating a person intellectually can be super erotic. Whether it’s through humor, wit, culture or even imagination once in bed (or elsewhere, you do what you want, where you want after all), it’s mega exciting. So don’t be afraid to be smart to seduce and eroticize your sexual partner as much as possible.
- The breasts: it’s obvious but breasts can be an erogenous zone for women. Be careful not to feel them as if you were having a mammogram. Some women like to have them licked or gently caressed, for example, others don’t like it. The same goes for nipples which for some people cause an unpleasant sensation so listen to your partner’s reactions.
- The body as a whole: sensuality and desire are above all a question of fluidity and energy. Some people like this better, others like that better, you have to live the moment and let yourself go with fluidity in the moment to increase desire and therefore pleasure.
Be yourself!