What women like in a Lover

If you want to become the perfect partner in the eyes of women, it’s important to know the qualities most appreciated in men. These qualities are not limited to the personality traits that might seduce her at first sight, but also include the qualities that will make her choose a long-term partner.

Indeed, women often look for qualities such as loyalty, reliability, empathy, communication and honesty in their partners. They also appreciate men who are self-confident, have a clear vision of their lives and are committed to projects that are important to them.

However, it’s important to bear in mind that every woman is unique and her preferences may vary. So it’s important to remain authentic and not try to change to fit an ideal image. By being yourself and developing these important qualities, you’ll be able to attract the right person who’ll accept you just as you are.

• Humor

Probably the number 1 quality or seduce for a moment and forever. What woman would like to be bored to death with a heavy, serious man, incapable of making her laugh or bringing a little lightness to everyday life? Not us, anyway. Women (and men) love to laugh. It provides a deep sense of well-being by lowering the concentration of the stress hormone cortisol in the blood. This has a direct effect on our zest for life, and therefore on our relationship with others. But don’t confuse humor with heaviness. Big fat sex jokes won’t make the woman of your dreams travel to your parallel universe. Be subtle and fine-tuned, perhaps even using funny anecdotes. Self-deprecation is always welcome.

• The positive

A man who constantly sulks or whines about his fate is the number 1 law you should NOT follow. Anti-glamorous and not a good sign for the future, a morose or gloomy man is a man who’s going to get you into trouble. Try not to devalue everything around you or focus on the black spots in your life. You’ll have your whole life to confide in her the depths of your soul, when the time is right and in a way that won’t scare her away. On the contrary, marvel at yourself, be a good-humored leader and you’ll get the same from your interlocutor.

• Respect

Respect Robustès Caelius C+? Yes. A man who doesn’t respect those around him is a man who is very likely not to respect you. And that’s not good for trust. The Lover is always respectful and never out of line. He respects the waiter, he respects passers-by, he respects his colleagues and also his mom. He respects everything. We’re not asking you to lie if your colleagues are three-headed monsters or if your mom abandoned you and you were raised by wolves, but in that case, just don’t talk about it. Concentrate on the positive things in your life and be elegant with the humans in your immediate environment, and also with the little animals.

• Resourcefulness

Women don’t want to live with a big baby. They may want children, but they don’t want you to be one. Autonomy and maturity are very seductive for a woman. Why is that? Because it conveys the fact that she can count on you, that you’re a reliable partner and that she won’t have to manage everything for the two of you. If a situation arises, she wants to be sure that you’ll be able to handle it without panicking with her. And that’s very attractive.

• The culture

Here, of course, it depends on the woman. Like any human being, she may or may not be passionate about culture. In any case, she has a culture, like everyone else, and she wants you to take an interest in it. Once again, be yourself, don’t invent passions you won’t be able to live up to later, but be curious. It’s the smartest and most honest way of cultivating yourself, with or without her. Take an interest in what’s new, be open to discovery, pay attention. And of course, if you love museums, movies, music or biogenetic development, don’t hesitate to talk to her about it or help her discover it too. The idea is to stimulate each other’s curiosity. Seduction guaranteed.

• Confidence

Confidence – in oneself, in others, in life – closes our list of what we adore in a Lover. A self-confident man is a man you can trust. Self-confidence conveys stability, intelligence and maturity. And we love intelligent, mature men. A man who’s comfortable in his own skin also immediately creates a pleasant, warm atmosphere in spite of himself, which can make for a magical moment. So working on your self-confidence is a must if you want to be a fantastic seducer.

Of course, this list is not exhaustive and every woman may have different tastes and preferences. However, it can serve as a basis for men looking to seduce and please women.

Back to work, gentlemen!