Are you curious to discover the elements that irresistibly attract women…
Are you curious about what really attracts women? Maybe you remember the movie “What Women Want” where Mel Gibson’s character discovers the power to read women’s minds. We’re not going to offer you such an extreme experience, but we asked women to get their opinion. They shared with us what makes them fall for a man. For some, it’s the physical that counts: the hands, the butt, the eyes, the smile. For others, it’s the character traits that make the difference from the start: humor, kindness, self-confidence, etc.
Physical assets:
Sabine, 29 years old: “The look is very important, a form of charisma, but the whole person must please me. A little bald guy, it’s a no even if he is rich, funny! The whole must be pleasant and enjoyable to look at. The hands are also important. Then, there is the character but first, I look at the physique .”
Carole, 52 years old: ” I look at the size first. I’m quite tall so I’m attracted to a handsome man who can hold me in his arms so I feel safe. “
Most women like to date men who are taller than them. This gives them a sense of security and makes them feel more feminine.
Marie, 41 years old: ” The first thing that attracts me to a man is his gaze: warm, deep, direct. Then, his smile or his voice will end up seducing me even if I don’t have a particular type of man. .”
The look is one of the first things in a man that attracts women. Simply because it transmits a lot of things.
Jessica, 22 years old: “ For me, it’s clear, it’s the physical first. I like guys with muscles, I always try to guess if he has tablets under his sweater. Another super important detail for me, hair, I hate. ”
Many women like muscular men, but not too muscular either. There is no point in exhausting yourself in the gym to have huge arms covered in veins that stand out. A small belly is not going to scare them off.
Justyna, 45 years old: “ What makes me melt every time is muscular buttocks and hair. LOL. I like sportsmen with lots of wavy hair and if I see a hairy chest, it’s over. I crack. I don’t know if it’s good because I always come across the same type of men who prefer freedom to commitment. ”
And yes, without knowing it, women are attracted to this area. Muscular buttocks are synonymous with a hard-working, strong man.
Just as they are looking for the virile but not macho side. They like this man who will reassure them and defend them. A man who knows how to assert himself and who, apparently, is not afraid of anything.
Similarly, the voice has often been mentioned as an asset of seduction for you men.
A deep voice timbre will convey a feeling of virility, protection and assurance sought in the subconscious of women. This tone of voice can also arouse desire in women.
Your character also makes them fall in love!
Doriane, 55 years old : “Humor, gentleness, sensitivity, discretion, simplicity and charm attract me like a bee to honey. But a man who makes me laugh with a cute smile won’t need to make much effort for me to agree to dinner. “
Marianne, 32 years old : ” Like any woman, I would say a serious, sincere man who wants to commit. In reality, what makes me fall for sure is a very particular form of charm, I like men full of shyness and clumsiness. It’s very strange, I went to talk to a shrink, I was afraid of wanting to be my partner’s mother. But no, everything is fine with me, it’s just that these signs of extreme sensitivity affect me. “
Noémie, 25 years old : “It was humor and kindness that made me fall for him. I need a man who makes me laugh every day or almost. For me, humor is life. “
Women, even if they are going to look at a handsome Apollo, expect a lot from a man’s character. Before agreeing to a date, it is the character traits that will determine their choice.
Humor is a character trait that was unanimously acclaimed by the women who responded to us. So, gentlemen, don’t take yourself too seriously, be light, kind and funny.
For my part, I wanted to play the game. I admit that I don’t have very precise criteria. I like charm. And charm is often hidden in small details.
The details that make me crack:
- A man dancing.
- A man who never smokes but who, after a drink or two, lights one up.
- A man driving. More precisely, the muscle in his arm contracting as he shifts gears, and the other hand nonchalantly on the steering wheel.
- After the shower when he sprays himself with perfume.
- A well-tailored black suit.
- A reflex to reach out to help me down a path…
- A man who serves me a drink.
- A man with his best friend.
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