Is monotony taking over your intimate life and you want to add a little spice without venturing into the complicated positions of the Kamasutra? Why not simply change the environment? Dare to step out of your comfort zone and let yourself be seduced by an erotic adventure in a place where you would never have imagined taking off your underwear (or perhaps only in your wildest dreams).

3 outdoor locations for a quickie

The bed, the high kitchen table, your desk, not to mention the pretty Italian shower in your bathroom, you know them! Clearly, you’re fed up with your sex life resembling a playlist that you play on repeat without taking the time to actually listen to the songs. You want to feel the fresh air on your body while you embrace your partner. You want to flirt with the risk of being seen in the act. In short, you want to have an experience that you’ll remember.

1 – On the abandoned beach

You’ve walked for hours to find this little beach, far from the tourist trails. The white sand, the turquoise water… it’s all there. You can even take shelter from the sun, in the shade of a big rock. A glance to the right, then to the left, no one. And if ever a curious person passed by, would you be so embarrassed?

You’ll have plenty of time to think about it if it happens. For now, your partner takes off her dress and signals you to go into the water with her.

The only question to ask yourself is whether you will resist the urge to take it with the waves, to frolic on the warm sand, coming out of the water, on the ground or whether this sublime and captivating turquoise water will get the better of your self-control long before.

2 – When we arrive in town

You are on your way home, in a light mood, after spending two hours in a dark room next to your date and at a crossroads, the idea comes to you. What if we took a right, there in this barely lit alley, quiet and hidden from view, to take the time to prolong the evening.

No! Still, you wouldn’t dare, would you?

You continue on your way, but the sexual tension is rising inside you and your partner would have been tempted by a little detour. And there, you come across a pretty little courtyard. No one in sight, only the moon could spy on you.

3 – The little bubble of the Jacuzzi

There’s nothing like the fresh air of a mountain evening to fully enjoy the bubbles of a hot hot tub. You’re alone, the scenery is sublime and your partner half-naked in the boiling water too.

Wouldn’t this be an opportunity to step into the shoes of your favorite movie character and play the great seducer? You don’t have any champagne or strawberries to put on the edge of the pool, to perfect the atmosphere? No matter.

Surprise your partner by joining her and kissing her neck before you enter the water. Watch her look at you as you take a seat, facing her, in the simmering water and let your respective desires take over.

Excitement and desire are cultivated!

Your senses demand to be titillated, exalted and sometimes even turned upside down.

What makes sex great is not how many positions you can do in three minutes. Orgasm is not about the size of your penis or the flexibility of your partner.

It’s more about enjoying yourself. Sprinkling your romps with a je-ne-sais-quoi that will put your body into a trance.

Whether it’s through touch, taste, smell, hearing, or the scenery you expose yourself to, the more you pay attention to the details that take you past the point of no return, the more memorable moments you’ll have.

Discovering the other

The same goes for the attention paid to your partner. What does she like? Sweet words? Places with dim lighting or, on the contrary, spaces that hide nothing from the eyes?

Your partner is like an island paradise that begs to be explored, like a forest that is full of mystery or a meadow whose tall grasses shelter charming secrets.

Go exploring, both what the places have to offer you and what you can discover by really looking and listening to the person with whom you are sharing this carnal moment.

Soak up these moments and bring them back to your room

Fear of routine? The adrenaline rush when you return from vacation or after an experience so intense that it still leaves you breathless when you think about it again?

Visualization and memory are two allies in the quest for pleasure. You will have a whole new perspective on your bedroom if you bring your naughty memories under the sheets. Sometimes, all it takes is a: “Honey, do you remember that time on the beach…” to set your bodies ablaze.

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Love and seduction of others begins with acceptance and love of oneself.