In 2020, the pandemic made sex difficult for singles and comfortable for couples. Most of us followed social distancing guidelines and stayed home for months. But with vaccines on the horizon and life returning to a more normal life, 2021 could be the year you push your sexual boundaries and experience a deeper, stronger sense of intimacy, whether with your partner or solo. We believe it can help you banish stress and anxiety, and experience multiple orgasms.
The lotus
This position is very intimate and romantic. You can vibrate together without taking your eyes off each other.
Here’s how to get set up:
Sit on a bed, chair or sofa with your legs crossed over each other. This is the “half lotus” position. You get a full lotus when your partner joins you.
Have your partner sit on top of you and wrap their legs around you as if you were a tree. After penetration, instead of having up and down movements, your partner will move their hips back and forth in a rocking position. The main appeal of this position is intimacy because there is a lot of face-to-face contact in this position. This position will give you the opportunity to connect deeper and closer on many levels.
The queening
This stimulating sex position will push your partner out of her comfort zone, she will have to offer you the confidence to receive intense pleasure. Sit her on a chair and spread her legs. Kneel inside her legs and use your mouth and fingers to touch and stimulate her. A low chair can also be recommended, which is more comfortable for both of you. Queening is a female-centered sexual act.
Bluetooth Controlled Happiness
Due to the pandemic, virtual sex has become part of many couples’ lives. Sales of sex toys have also exploded, making remote mutual masturbation, whether manually or with a sex toy, an attractive option for sexual connection.
Here’s one way to do it: Order a Bluetooth-controlled toy like the We-Vibe from Lovehoney.com and play with your virtual partner using the 10 discreet settings to give them a hands-free orgasm. Give your partner a virtual sex experience while you watch them behind your screen.
The romantic missionary
With the return of romantic sex, you can put missionary at the top of your list. Your partner lies on her back and you penetrate her while on top of her. Keep your legs close together and tilt hers forward, so that your pubic bone stimulates her clitoris during the in and out movements. The simultaneous clitoral stimulation and penetration will make the pleasure intense. You can also squeeze your legs together to make her vagina tighter and create more friction for both of you.
The electric chair
This move is an adventurous version of the woman on top position.
Sit upright on a chair or couch and have your partner straddle you with her knees on the chair or couch. After penetration, she will take charge of the action by bouncing up and down for deep penetration. This position is great for partners of all sizes; you can connect through eye contact. It is also great for clitoral stimulation as the woman can maneuver her body so that her clit rubs against your pelvic bone, her breasts will be stimulated as well by the movements on your torso.
Now it’s your turn!