The ritual of seduction

Several studies have shown that seductive behaviors are largely rooted in human reflexes and persist over time. Men tend to value their financial wealth while women rely on their physical appearance to attract attention.

According to various surveys and polls, men give less importance to intelligence than women when choosing their partner. Education and age are less important criteria for them than a physical appearance that suits them. In addition, sexual experience and loyalty are also important criteria for men in their choice of partner, while women often give priority to the income of their potential partner when considering a serious relationship.

Although these stereotypes are unfortunately too often verified, the first sign of seduction to arouse curiosity is the look. It allows you to determine if the attraction is mutual, because a dilated pupil towards a partner expresses a carnal desire. If the first look is not sustained on the side of the woman you covet, it is better not to insist, because this indicates that the desire is not shared.

To start the conversation, you can make a rather classic introduction, there is no point in being too complicated. A simple “I would like to see you again” or an allusion to a time or place referring to your first meeting can simply suffice. Don’t be too simple either, your introduction still needs to draw a response and generate interest!

Behavior will be much more important than words anyway, so if you are extremely shy, all is not lost. Body language is indeed very important in communicating with the person you want to seduce.

The voice, and more specifically the tone used, are very important in your way of communicating and can be decisive in expressing your interest to a woman you like. The way you express yourself can be a real weapon of seduction. Indeed, using certain intonations could help you to make your expectations understood and the tone used also gives the mood you are in, which is very important for a woman!

The way you move with your body is even more important than your voice. When your body tends to imitate the person it is facing, it means that, unconsciously, it feels in perfect harmony with the person. By observing more closely how the other person behaves, you will be able to guess if they are also under your spell. If the person in front of you is relaxed and leans forward a little, there is a good chance that they feel good around you and that they are even really interested in you. If, on the contrary, you feel them tense, with their arms crossed or their shoulders hunched, it means that something is bothering them and that the interest is not mutual.

If you notice that your sweetheart seems to be looking for physical contact with you, it may reflect a real desire to see you again and to deepen this first meeting… Body language will be decisive, so pay close attention to this.

Smiling is also essential, because when you like someone, you have to make them feel that pleasure. If you are too stressed by the situation to smile, make a little effort because it is proven that without smiling, contact will not lead to any intimate relationship, because it is your ability to show a woman that she is desirable that will allow you to seduce her.

Be careful not to presume certain intentions and to check your intuition by taking your time, because if you are wrong, you will definitively close the door to any relationship.

If you are really stuck with women, we recommend that you first try to make friends with some women in order to understand them better. It’s all about learning to be comfortable with them, so it’s best to try this experiment with women you are not attracted to.

A woman needs to feel confident to accept even the slightest physical intimacy simply because she is not as physically strong, so she must first and foremost feel reassured.

It is therefore imperative to succeed in understanding the signals sent by a woman when she likes you, so as to no longer be stressed if ever you perceive an encouraging attitude. Do not forget that a woman can also be shy, which will only complicate the task.

Similarly, complaining constantly is very frowned upon by women.

Smiling, laughing and joy will have a much stronger impact than good looks if they are associated with complaining, criticism or bad moods.

Finally, the most important thing: try to be an interesting and humanly rich person. A passionate, cultured person, who has projects and passions will necessarily provoke interest, perhaps even more than a person with an advantageous physique but who does not have real human qualities.

Women are much more sensitive to finesse, wit, humor and kindness than to physical appearance. However, showing yourself off is recommended, but there are many men with unattractive physical appearance who manage to seduce very beautiful women thanks to their intellect and kindness. It’s up to you!