Whether you’re in a relationship or in the middle of a seduction phase, sexting is a great way to rekindle passion or arouse desire. However, it’s important to know how to do it! There’s a fine line between a sext that stimulates desire and a famous unsolicited penis photo that turns you off.

The principle of sexting

These days, sending a naughty text message to your partner (or the person you’re flirting with) is commonplace. A few well-chosen words and hey presto, you’re transported into textual foreplay that increases your level of excitement, but also that of your partner.

If sexting is often used to seduce, once you’re in a relationship, these naughty and languid little messages become rarer. Why? It’s a shame. A relationship doesn’t always rhyme with routine. Conversely, you can very well seduce in a respectful way while integrating sexting into your seduction techniques. Once again, it’s about measuring out the right amount so as not to fall into vulgarity and disrespect for the other person. As in any moment of seduction, consent, listening and reciprocity are essential points.

In short, sexting is a way to flirt with, and/or excite, your partner in writing. Whether you are a novice or an expert in this flirting technique, here are some tips that will help you spice up your relationships.

Things to know before you start

While it’s exciting to send each other messages, or even naughty photos, there are a few practical rules to incorporate to prevent your text foreplay from turning into an awkward moment or worse… sexual blackmail!

Namely

• Sexting is part of your relationship (and as such, it’s private).

• Delete or hide your messages, but remember where they are on your phone (you don’t necessarily want your children to stumble upon them while trying to watch Peppa Pig on YouTube).

• Set your limits together.

• Have fun and think “fun”.

• Beware of revenge porn (yes, you too, gentlemen! Only send naughty photos and messages if you really trust the other person).

Different Styles of Naughty Texting

Here comes the long-awaited moment of the naughty list of texts to send to your partner. There are different categories of sexts:

• romantic sexting;
• hot text messages to go further;
• naughty texts that rekindle long-distance relationships;
• the humor and sexting combo;
• hot messages that press desire;
• sextos to eat at the right time;
• sexting without appeal (come or it’s too late).

Depending on the situation, the progress of your relationship and especially your feelings, you can draw from the table below. Remember, what works for sure is to stay yourself and speak the truth.

And after?

You’ve exchanged your naughty text messages and are eagerly awaiting the moment when you will meet your partner again? Remember that sexting is still a virtual exchange, sometimes the atmosphere via text message is much hotter than the one you will find yourself in once face to face. If this is the case, don’t panic. This does not take away from the passionate or torrid exchange you had.

It is entirely possible that:

• the excitement dies down in the meantime;
• embarrassment takes over at the crucial moment;
• the fear of acting as in your messages blocks you (or your partner);

It is also possible that the opposite will happen and that you will be even more excited once you are with your partner. In both cases, do not sulk at your pleasure and let yourself go with what comes. Listen to your feelings, and pay attention to your partner, and everything will be fine.

Which sext is right for you?

Romantic sexting

The memory of your body against mine makes me want to reduce the distance between us.

The night has passed well and truly, but I remain drunk on your kisses.

What if we replicated the madness we allowed ourselves yesterday? I’m already dying to see you again.

Hot text messages to go further

I just bought a pretty interesting book… I would love to put its teachings into practice with you. (attach a photo of the book in question)

I’m hungry for you, can’t wait for lunch break.

If we were face to face, right now, how long would you last?

Naughty Texts That Rekindle Long-Distance Relationships

I’m completely naked. You want to know what I’m doing? Turn on your cam and let me turn you on.

Distance or not, I want you. Drop what you’re doing and come kiss me.

Can’t wait to see you again, this plane can’t land soon enough. As soon as I walk through the door, I’ll have you flying… That’s a promise.

The humor and sexting combo

I’m watching what I eat at the moment, no cake tonight, we’ll go straight to the treat.

I’m stuck in the Captain America costume… Can you help me get it off?

This job is torture… I have to write an article about sexting, can you help me?

Hot messages that press desire

I have a leadership meeting in 30 minutes. I’d like to test my powers of persuasion with you. I’ve reserved room 2B.

It’s time for your cardio session. Your personal trainer is waiting for you, don’t keep him waiting.

Pretend you have a stomach ache and we’re leaving this evening, you’re making me too hot in that pretty dress.

Sextos to eat at the right time

Right now, I really want to take the straw out of your mouth so we can make our own cocktail in my car.

My friends are offering me to stay, but the third half should be more exciting with you, right?

Sexting without appeal

You, me, right away!

Tense and excited, I know that only you can come and calm my desire. The test of the poles can wait, I won’t last that long.

Are you more inspired? It’s up to you to vary the pleasures and especially to give free rein to your imagination. Your partner will certainly appreciate your spontaneity and if ever it was not the… Don’t be discouraged. You will have opened a door. It may not be the time for the other or your partner may not be as comfortable as you with this kind of message.

In any case, let it go. You have initiated the game of seduction by showing your partner that you are open to this kind of naughty exchange. If the urge takes him (or her), he knows that sexting has an effect on you!

To each his own sexuality

There are many ways to seduce, flirt and turn each other on. Sexting is one of the ways to do this. Every relationship is different, it’s up to you and your partner to create your own little rituals.

Whether you enjoy sexting, culinary foreplay, or getting in the mood with a romantic movie or music… Do what you like! The more comfortable you are with each other, the more fun you will have and the more you will explore the plurality of sexual pleasures together.

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