The benefits of prostate stimulation

The benefits of prostate stimulation are increasingly recognized, but still often considered taboo. Yet this small gland beneath the bladder can provide unsuspected pleasures, thanks in particular to a practice known as prostate massage. This involves stimulating the prostate either externally or internally, for example using a finger or a specially designed sextoy. Not only can prostate stimulation intensify male orgasm, it can also have health benefits, such as preventing the risk of prostate cancer and improving erectile function. Of course, as with any sexual practice, communication and consent are essential, as is a good knowledge of one’s own body and its limits.

Would you like to find out? And know how to ask your partner? Talking about anal pleasure is becoming less and less taboo. But that doesn’t mean we’re all adepts or experts. So, gentlemen, be delicate and humorous.

Anal stimulation can have an effect on both men and women. But in men with a prostate, the orgasmic potential of the finger in the buttocks is multiplied.

Tips for a successful prostate massage :

• Choose your partner

To engage in this tantric game, you need to be two of a kind. Your partner must enjoy oral and manual pleasures like fellatio and cunnilingus, and feel comfortable with her body and yours. Before you start titillating your partner’s bottom, there are a few steps you shouldn’t miss: communication and shared pleasure.

• Preparation

Preparing for an anal massage.

Before venturing out to stimulate your partner’s anus, remember to trim your nails and wash your hands thoroughly.

Preparing for a prostate massage.

Remember to trim your private parts for greater softness and sensation. You can give them a little trim with your clippers. At the risk of being blunt, the recipient’s first reflex is to empty his bowels first. Stimulating the prostate does not imply deep penetration. And as the human body is well made, “waste” is only stored there when the detour to the toilet is close at hand. So if you and your partner have done your business during the day, there’s no reason why you should come across an “intruder” during your exploration. If ever your partner is very worried about this, it’s possible to have an anal shower.

Anal douche or not, partners should take care to shower before the act, as is recommended before any sexual act.

• Warm-up

I would say LUBRICATION! Buy lubricating gel and don’t be stingy. The anus doesn’t lubricate itself like a vagina. You have to put some on and put some back on.

The #1 rule of anal sex: get into the thick of it slowly.

Start by putting some gel on Madame and caressing her gently for a long time. She’ll love it. You’ll be able to gently titillate her little hole. Feel her let go.

It’s not a case of going straight for the anus: instead, you start by skimming the contours, moving a tentative finger forward, then pushing it in a little more, then turning back and coming back again… Time for your partner to relax, loosen the muscles… and beg you to continue. Your partner is now ready, you’ve shown her how it’s done.

Now it’s your turn…

Put gel on your sex, testicles and below. Be generous. His hand will be able to glide over your erogenous zones. Play up and down. Don’t hesitate to grunt with pleasure as her fingers run over the bump behind your balls. Guide her so that her fingertips caress your little puck. Spread your legs a little, moan. As with her, your muscles will relax and the entrance will open gently.

Finding the P-spot for orgasm

To find the P-spot, you first need to know what you’re looking for. The prostate is a small, protruding ball with a different texture. This P-point is located on the “inner” wall of the rectum, about 7 cm from the entrance to the anus.

Guide your partner, talk, growl so that she can find where to play. The good sign is the urge to urinate: the more you feel you have to urinate, the more it means you’ve hit the spot!

Once you’ve located your prostate, all you have to do is stroke it with your fingertips. The same techniques are used to stimulate the prostate as for the vagina: a back-and-forth movement with one or two fingers, with varying degrees of pressure… This is the time for you to find a position that’s comfortable for you, and help your partner with the back-and-forth movement.

After this experience, you’ll be able to vary your pleasures and positions. Now you’re ready for great orgasms.