To be attractive to women, it is not enough to have an advantageous physique. Seduction is above all a question of attitude and behavior. Here are some tips to help you stand out.
First of all, it is important to work on your self-confidence. A person who feels good about themselves is naturally more attractive. Take care of yourself and your appearance, without going overboard. For example, you can opt for clothes that enhance your figure, without being too suggestive. Also, don’t hesitate to work on your body language by adopting a confident posture and using confident gestures.
Conversation is also a key element of seduction. Listen to your interlocutor and show that you are interested in what she has to say. Ask her questions about herself and show that you are curious to know her. While remaining respectful, do not hesitate to gently tease her to create complicity and a climate of trust. Finally, avoid subjects that could be delicate or likely to create tensions, such as politics or religion.
Finally, remember that seduction is a subtle game. Don’t be too direct or too passive. Show your interest without being too insistent, and give your interlocutor the time and space to discover herself at her own pace. Listen to her signals and adapt accordingly.
In short, to become attractive to women, work on your appearance, your self-confidence, your conversation and your subtlety. And don’t forget that seduction is above all a question of shared pleasure and complicity.
Here are the qualities to work on and highlight:
Be honest
A man who appears honest in a woman’s eyes will seduce her very quickly… Honesty makes women fall in love. They find it hard to resist.
This is what they are looking for in a relationship.
An honest man gives them that feeling of security.
You’re going to tell me: how can I be honest?
Keep it simple. Tell him about failures you’ve gone through in the past. Experiences you’ve had and the lessons you’ve learned from them.
Show him the little flaws that made you feel self-conscious.
Like for example, your weight or acne problem during your high school period. Or that you got your driver’s license after 5 failures, thankless odd jobs because you weren’t rolling in money.
As the woman will then understand that you are not a PERFECT MAN, she will feel much more comfortable with you, without being afraid to “fight to keep you”.
With a guy who is too perfect, they know that the fight is lost in advance and that he will end up in the arms of another.
If she senses you are honest, you will avoid the nightmare of jealousy.
But remember to place the word “honest” in your sentences. It’s like a magic wand.
Develop your emotional intelligence
I’m not talking about IQ but about EQ: the emotional quotient.
They are not looking for Einstein.
You must be able to easily lead interesting discussions, show that you have good self-esteem, and above all, that you are an ambitious man with serious plans in life.
With your emotional intelligence, you will prove that you are capable of making important decisions. Not only for yourself, but for her too.
It is still the feeling of protection and security.
It’s time for you to open books on personal development. This topic is very fashionable, it will be easy for you to find formats and topics that will interest you.
Do some research on the Internet: Personal development. You should even find channels on Youtube dealing with this subject.
Manage your finances
You are not asked to be a millionaire or to play the millionaire.
Here we come back to safety and honesty.
A financially stable man is a man who has a respectable job, which he enjoys and which brings him a steady income.
If you show her that you will never have money problems, since you are efficient in your work and that you have opportunities for advancement, your sweetheart will understand: comfort and security.
Show her that you respect money too. She needs to understand that rich or poor, you will know how to handle the relationship in difficult times.
She needs to know that you are in control of the household finances and she will love you until your dying day.
Take care of your appearance
A woman notices everything and is very critical. Especially at the beginning.
One detail can put her off forever.
Your appearance is important, but so is your hygiene. Being clean is obvious, but above all, not looking neglected.
This means: haircut, beard or not, but well trimmed or shaved, clean and ironed clothes, clean shaven neck, no dandruff, clean nails, fresh breath.
Wear deodorant and quality perfume.
If you knew the number of women who will buy your deodorant to smell you or borrow your perfume to keep a little bit of you on them.
Smell is very important to women.
Your manners and attitudes
This step joins the physical appearance.
Your manner is a big part of your personality and charm.
When you are with his friends, do not raise your voice while speaking. Speak calmly with elegance.
Avoid getting drunk in front of her. Show her that you are in control and that you will be there to drive her home like a good gentleman.
With your good manners, your sweetheart will respect you and will be eager to introduce you to her friends and family. If you want a strong romantic relationship, you need to make a good impression on her loved ones.
Learn to correct your annoying little flaws. We all have them. To do this, start by asking the women around you what they are? Ask your mother, your sisters, cousins, girlfriends. Let them let loose. You have to know your flaws to tone them down.
Humor
This is the ultimate secret of seduction.
Once you feel that your suitor is starting to fall under your spell, use humor to finally make her fall for you.
Women don’t want a man who is too serious and boring. They want a man who makes them laugh, brings them joy.
A man who can tell stories and laugh at himself is very attractive.
Humor is also a skill that can be learned.
It’s simple, you need to create your own joke repertoire . Every time you hear a joke that really makes you laugh, write it down right away.
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