How did sex toys find their place in men’s drawers? Once taboo, the practice of male masturbation is now more and more accepted. With the advent of sex toys for men, solitary pleasure has never been so diverse. Far from stereotypes, these sex toys are not reserved only for women.
Sex toys for men come in many shapes and sizes, and offer a variety of sensations from penile stimulation to prostate stimulation. There’s something for everyone and every level of experience, whether you’re a novice or an expert.
The benefits are numerous: the discovery of new sensations, the possibility of self-discovery and exploring one’s sexuality alone or with a partner. So, why not try the experience and add a little spice to your intimate moments?
According to a recent study by Canadian pharmaceutical company Church and Dwight, nearly 44.8% of men, regardless of their sexual orientation, have used sex toys. This statistic often comes as a surprise because sex toys are generally considered to be intended primarily for women. However, this practice is increasingly common among men, who are looking to explore new sources of pleasure and better understand their bodies.
But why is this craze for male sex toys constantly increasing?
3 fundamental reasons:
Creating a relationship with one’s body, building intimacy with oneself, developing sex esteem that allows self-confidence but that leads to knowing one’s own sexual mechanics in order to better control them in relationships with others. A man who knows and controls his sexual reactions has a better chance of sharing satisfying sexual relations with a partner because he knows his possibilities, his limits.
Maintaining good sexual hygiene. Not all men are Don Juans capable of seducing one or more partners on a regular basis. To maintain their sexual health, men must be able to masturbate in peace and in a satisfactory manner. Not only can sex toys help them achieve orgasm, but some of them even have massage functions that help them relax. Sex toys can therefore reduce stress, counter anxiety, and even rid a man of erectile dysfunction. Some are even recommended in sexual therapy.
Finally, sex toys represent a considerable asset in a couple’s sex life. The desire in a couple who have a few years of living together behind them can crumble. Sex toys then break the routine and bring a new dimension of pleasure to a worn-out couple. However, you have to be open-minded enough to take the plunge, as a couple, and have the desire to reconnect intimately with each other.
Men’s favorite sex toys
Here is a non-exhaustive list of the sex toys that men prefer. Those who buy them are sometimes single, often sexually active with several partners and, increasingly, they are men in relationships who want to spice up their life in bed.
The masturbator: manual or vibrating, it is found in the form of a simulated mouth, vagina or anus. They are more or less sophisticated, depending on the model, in order to bring the user closer to the sensation of fellatio, sodomy or vaginal penetration. The most sophisticated ones provide a suction effect. The little extra: some are molded from the vaginas of porn stars, like Clara Morgan and other big names in pornography.
Dildos and vibrators: these are the same toys that women use. Phallic in shape, vibrating or not, they are mainly used by men for anal self-penetration or to penetrate their partner during lovemaking.
Prostate stimulators: Most men now know that the prostate is an extraordinary powerhouse of male pleasure. Unlike dildos and vibrators, the prostate stimulator is a type of dildo molded specifically to easily and comfortably stimulate the prostate during anal penetration. Some have a joystick or gear lever shape, with remote control, vibration levels, integrated penis ring, in short the whole lot to reach nirvana…
Cock rings: When their penis is too narrow, men like to use a cock ring. In addition to enlarging the penis, the ring will make it firmer and will also delay ejaculation. If it is also vibrating, it will provide even more pleasure to the penis that wears it.
Strap-ons: increasingly popular among open-minded heterosexual couples. Yes, some men also want to experience anal sex and are not homosexual. Obviously, you have to find a partner who will not be offended by such a practice…
Inflatable dolls: although they are a bit has-been, inflatable dolls still exist. In PVC, vinyl or latex, some even have a built-in vibrator for more sensations.
Real dolls : what can we say about these dolls that are so real that some men might fall in love with them? Made of silicone, cast and molded with a firm skeleton and joints for all positions. They have the weight and height of a real woman. They can represent all ethnicities, the hair and eyes are at the customer’s choice, as well as the size of the breasts, etc. However, they are not cheap. You should plan on between €600 and €6,000 depending on the desired specifications. As they represent a considerable financial investment, know that there are rental companies that deliver and collect them.
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This list only includes a few examples of sex toys, but the range of items available is truly astonishing in its diversity. In addition, the possibility of buying online via online sex shops has greatly facilitated the acquisition of this type of product by men. In complete anonymity, it is now reassuringly simple to obtain all kinds of sex toys and to please yourself without being judged. So, gentlemen, it’s your turn!