Penis size: the real truth

It’s time to set the record straight: penis size is a subject that preoccupies many men. But what should we really think?

First, it’s important to know that the average size of an erect penis is around 13 cm. However, there are wide variations from person to person, and having a penis smaller or larger than this average doesn’t necessarily mean something negative.

It’s also important to know that penis size has no impact on your ability to give your partner sexual pleasure. The female erogenous zones are mainly found in the vagina and the clitoris, both of which are located near the entrance to the vagina. A small penis can therefore offer effective stimulation of these zones, while a large one may cause discomfort or pain.

So there’s no need to focus on the size of your penis. What really counts is the quality of the sexual relationship with your partner. This depends on many factors, such as communication, trust, listening, mutual respect, creativity and so on. If you’re feeling anxious about the size of your penis, it may be helpful to discuss it with a mental health professional who can help you develop better self-esteem and body awareness.

What do women really think about the size of your penis? Does less than 20 cm mean you’re a bit of a player? Absolutely not. Women have a complex relationship with the male sex. Even if they can get excited with their girlfriends by looking at suggestive photos or watching porn, their attitude changes completely when they’re alone in front of a penis.

It’s fun to act like girls and pretend that “the bigger, the better”. We boast, laugh out loud, provoke and have fun. But once in the bedroom with Popaul and his landlord, things don’t always go so smoothly. Big penises aren’t always all that fun. In fact, some women prefer medium-sized penises. The reference penis size for adequate penetration is 13.32 cm in length and 11 cm in circumference when erect. Beyond this size, the penis has virtues that are more mythical than real.

The vagina only has sensory endings in the first eight centimetres. The mysterious G-spot, which is supposed to propel women to pleasure nirvana, is located on average 4 cm from the vaginal opening. So even a 10 cm penis will do, if it’s just a matter of penetration. But to break the myth of XXL size, only 30% of women reach vaginal orgasm during coitus, and this is very often due to simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris.

How do women really perceive male penis size? Contrary to what you might think, most women aren’t attracted to big penises. Although women may get turned on by looking at risqué images with friends, their attitude towards penises changes radically when they find themselves alone in front of them. What’s more, some women prefer medium-sized penises, and the benchmark for an adequate penis is 13.32 cm with an erect circumference of 11 cm.

Beyond this size, the penis doesn’t necessarily have more virtues in terms of sexual pleasure. Large penises are often a matter of pride for men. Women often wonder whether they’ll be able to receive such a large penis inside them without pain, and are anxious at the thought of sodomy. What’s more, studies show that homosexual women reach orgasm more often during intercourse.

For women, the size of the penis is not the major asset in bed, but rather the man’s ability to diversify his caresses and explorations of the female body to provoke orgasm.