Mastering the kino (soft touch)

Kino is the art of gentle touch to establish physical contact with your conquest. Touch is an essential element in creating a connection with someone, whether sexual or not. It can be as simple as a touch of the arm, shoulder or hand, as a sign of affection or comfort. However, it’s important to choose the right moment to initiate contact, and eye contact is an important first step. If eye contact isn’t established, the kino won’t work. Secondly, the conversation must be interesting and pleasant for both parties. If this is the case, laughter can be a key element, as it can convey positive emotions and a shared sense of well-being.

This is where the kino method comes in. She makes you laugh, or you make her laugh, and the door is open to a first attempt. The forearm is the most neutral ground. You place your hand delicately on her wrist as a sign of approval or complicity. The woman you’re touching knows exactly where you’re going. Unless she’s just out of a convent and has never watched TV, as soon as your fingers graze the fabric of her sleeve, the countdown begins in her head. She’s already wondering how long it’ll be before you put your hand on her thigh or try to place your lips somewhere on her. So it’s up to you to beat her predictions.

Because you’re a Lover, you’ll pursue your quest for touch with a crescendo. No hurry. If you put a week into it, so be it, it’ll take 7 days, not one less. You must remain attentive. A woman who doesn’t want to be touched will automatically recoil if you enter her bubble uninvited. If she’s receptive at first, you can touch her hand the next time you try.

The most important thing, as you’ve already understood, is to be gentle and tender as you approach her. If you feel that she’s uncomfortable or embarrassed, it may just be shyness, so make a second attempt (the forearm, nothing else) and see how she reacts. If her body continues to block your approach, there’s no need to insist. Physically, she’s not attracted. Either work hard to make her want you, or move on.

That said, if this charming person is receptive to your approach, things should normally follow naturally. The rule is that once you’ve touched her, if she liked it, she’ll touch you back. And that’s it! Then it’s all escalation. You’ll put your hand on her shoulder, her hand, her arm, and after a few drinks, she’ll probably put her hand on your knee, your thigh, and so on. All you have to do is turn the soft touch into a torrid caress.