Lover’s sensibility

Sensitivity is often associated with a rather feminine quality, but men also have their share of emotions and feelings. In fact, sensitivity is a valuable asset for men who wish to be attentive lovers and partners who listen to their partners. Men who have learned to listen to their hearts and express their feelings are often perceived as more attractive and interesting than those who behave like insensitive brutes. So gentlemen, don’t be afraid to show your sensitivity and empathy towards your partner. This can be the key to establishing a deep and lasting relationship.

Does being a sensitive man penalize you when it comes to seducing women or finding the woman of your dreams? Absolutely not.

It’s time to abandon the stereotypes that see sensitive men as victims incapable of seducing women who find them too soft or unmanly. In reality, sensitive men can be twice as seductive as others. While some women may prefer men who are unrefined, macho and boorish, I don’t think this is the majority. Besides, virility and sensitivity are not mutually exclusive.

A man’s sensitivity gives him a certain poetry about life. Being sensitive to beautiful things, culture, art or even the little things in life gives him a certain charm, because it’s nice to chat with someone who’s curious and interested in a variety of subjects.

Of course, physical beauty can be seductive, but intelligence is just as important, if not more so. Sapiosexuality is an essential aspect of our nature, and a brilliant mind can be very erotic.

So we need to change the way we look at the word “sensitivity” and see it not as a handicap but as an asset. After all, like anything else, it’s possible for this beautiful quality to turn against you, making you vulnerable. How can you manage your sensitivity? How can you avoid losing your temper with a woman who makes you feel vulnerable?

First of all, things NOT TO DO.

– Try to act tough as you melt inside. It’ll look very unnatural and you’ll just look like a weird dude.
– Don’t immediately say “I’m super sensitive, you’re the love of my life and I don’t know what to do about it”. It’s possible that the young woman’s reaction will be to flee on a skateboard at 300 km/h.
– Run away yourself.

What you can DO now.

– Say to her with humor and complicity “talking with you would almost make me shy”. It’s a cute little phrase that could make her smile, and maybe even please her.
– Try to focus on the fact that the stakes of this meeting are not the stakes of a lifetime. Play down the importance of the meeting to make it a light, enjoyable experience.
– Use this sensitivity to suggest activities that are out of the ordinary and will make you stand out from the crowd.
– Show your sensitivity to give her confidence. Whether you like women (a lot) or you’re looking for THE woman, the most important thing in any relationship, whether short or long, is to have confidence in your partner. If you’re expressive, if you like to talk about what the other person inspires in you, don’t be shy. It’s not a question of telling her that you love her like crazy after 15 minutes chatting with her, but if you find that she walks gracefully or that her hands make you hammer, these are compliments that are always nice to receive.

In short, be yourself and see your sensitivity as a real asset in seducing women. It really is!