Let’s break down some taboos about sex

Many events related to sexuality are often overlooked, despite being common situations. Despite the sexualization of our society and the easy access to pornography, the little problems that occur in our beds are rarely discussed.

To prove this, here are ten examples of incidents that are quite ordinary and frequent, but which are often kept quiet or minimized.

1 – Foreplay is essential.

Foreplay is essential for women: caressing the sex, masturbation, cuni. Penetration is not the most important thing. So spend time teasing, exciting your partner before penetrating her. She will return her pleasure a hundredfold.

2 -Masturbation is not shameful

No, masturbation is not shameful, it is even highly recommended. It allows you to know your body better, to learn how to please yourself, to last longer (which can be useful during sexual intercourse). Not to mention that it is a good way to relax.

3 – Be careful with certain languages

Dirty words or playing baby: some words can shock or even disgust your playmate… It’s not because you found it exciting in a good porn that all women are attracted to certain forms of language.

4 – The first time is not often the best

Know that no one is immune to an awkward first time. In fact, it’s quite logical. You don’t know each other, you’re discovering your bodies. Gentlemen, be careful, don’t take her clit for a game controller and ladies, be gentle with her sex, no need to take it for a shaker. If this happens to you, don’t stress, it was the first time, the second will be better.

5 – Sex can be a lot of fun

We all know that during sex, we sweat, we make noise, strange faces, and moans or even cries a bit like animals…

And we’re never safe from a little fart, so don’t panic. It’s funny, so laugh.

6 – To get what you want, you have to ask for it.

Sexuality is complex and unique to each individual. You have to know how to communicate, it’s important. You can’t guess what your conquest likes most. And it’s the same for her, so you have to dare to express your desires.

7 – Sleeping like Glues

No one is expected to sleep together like spoons all night. It’s very romantic, but it gets hot after a while. So don’t feel bad if you didn’t hold Madame in your arms all night.

8 – Penetration not every time.

Little reminder, penetration is not mandatory to have an orgasm. Oral sex or sex with hands is also very appreciated. So do not hesitate to change a penetration with a good 69 for example.

9 – Sex upon waking up

And yes, in the morning, our mouth stinks, our body is numb, even sweaty… Don’t worry, many women like sex when they wake up.

10 – Lube is your friend

Think about your condoms but also about a lubricant. No need for a sophisticated lubricant, a simple one, without perfume. Your partner’s genitals will love the sensations of sliding when lubricated.

As you can see, in sex, there are no rules, be yourself while respecting your partner. Be simple and think about giving pleasure to receive it.