How to seduce when you’re not a supermodel?

How can you please women when you’re fat, ugly or simply not very attractive? The answer is simple: be confident, charismatic and interesting. There’s a lot more to seduction than looks. If you’re funny, cultured and interesting, you have every chance of seducing a woman, even if you don’t fit today’s beauty criteria.

It’s important not to focus on your physical shortcomings, but rather to highlight your qualities and talents. If you’re passionate about a subject, share it with your interviewer. Show that you’re interested in her by asking questions about her interests and listening attentively to her answers.

Don’t forget that self-confidence is the key to seduction. Be proud of who you are and embrace your looks, because that’s what makes you unique and interesting. Women appreciate men who are confident and know what they want. By following these tips, you’ll be able to conquer the heart of any woman, regardless of your physical appearance.

Physical beauty is not the number one seduction criterion for women. Unlike men, who are often attracted first and foremost by a woman’s appearance, women can be charmed by other qualities in a man. It is therefore possible for a man considered ugly or fat to seduce a woman. It’s enough to note that women can be attracted by other aspects of a man’s personality, such as charisma, humor, kindness or self-confidence. It can be reassuring to note that even physically unattractive men can sometimes succeed in seducing a beautiful woman.

The Lover who lacks beauty but still dreams of seduction absolutely must cultivate something else. His charm, of course, but also his class, his clothes, his way of being, his humor, his kindness, his attentiveness, his culture. We can’t say it often enough: a brilliant guy without general culture is like a Ferrari without fuel.

The obese or hideous Lover must be elegant, clean-cut, smell good and be INTERESTING. He talks about everything, has a beautiful sensitivity, knows the words that please the female ear, is intuitive and has a lot of self-deprecation. If he’s not handsome or well-built, he’s a genius. Never forget that a guy like Gainsbourg bedded the most beautiful women in France, that Luciano Pavarotti was a formidable seducer, that Casanova was far from being an Adonis, that sumo wrestlers in Japan have a herd of amorous groupies hanging on their mawashi at all times.

You might object that you’re not famous. True. But there’s one thing you have that others don’t: women feel confident around you. Your conquest will always feel at her best with you. She won’t suffer the unbearable pressure of risking having her boyfriend snatched away by another woman at the slightest street corner. She believes, often mistakenly, that other chicks aren’t interested in you. So she’ll stay extra nice to you.

Better still, in your presence, she embodies her own splendor, feeling free because she thinks that, because of your beauty shortcomings, you’ll be completely tolerant of all her shortcomings, whether it’s her unbearable temperament, possible weight gain or a certain carelessness with her looks. And in this, she’ll be absolutely right, because you’ll be so grateful to her for taking you as her lover.