How to Seduce a Hard-to-Win Woman

Have you ever been attracted to a woman who seems hard to win over? A woman who is more confident than the ones you usually meet. With a stunning physique, self-confidence and incredible charisma.

When faced with this type of woman, you may have been disconcerted to find that your usual seduction methods were not working. So, how do you seduce an inaccessible woman? What are the actions to take and those to avoid when you want to conquer a femme fatale?

Tip #1: Take it easy!

Do you want to approach an unusual woman? Start by making light of the situation. This woman may seem too beautiful, too intelligent, too famous… And your first instinct may be to give up. That’s where your first mistake lies.

Obviously, I’m not telling you to approach this woman without thinking with the first stock phrase that comes to mind. In this kind of case, you will have to take the time to think about what you want to say. Your approach technique must be a little more worked than usual.

In short, instead of wasting time imagining the ten thousand ways this woman could reject you, take the time to observe her to approach her in the best way. Take a deep breath, count to five and go for it or you will never go. As inaccessible as she may seem, this woman remains a human being!

Tip #2: Observe!

While many women enjoy being the center of attention, without it leading to a serious relationship, some women will prefer the look of a quality man to that of a bunch of oafs struggling to manage their testosterone spikes. So really look at her before you go and talk to her. What does she drink? Does she smoke? How does she dress? If she’s with friends, how does she act in her group?

To find the ideal angle of approach, your analytical skills will be your best ally. Nonverbal communication is just as important as verbal communication in seduction, if not more.

A simple step back can tell you what is offending this woman. The way she smiles when complimented can help you know whether she is sensitive to flattery or genuine compliments, etc.

Tip #3: Make a difference!

If, as you think, this woman is the type to be approached every time she goes out, if her daily life is punctuated by advances, flirting without depth or delicacy and slightly crude remarks from men, you will have everything to gain by being original. Don’t underestimate the element of surprise!

Understand one thing, the woman who lacks self-confidence seeks validation from men. This is not at all the case with a confident woman. The trite flattery and ready-made phrases that work with one will make you lose points with the other – or even the game.

To avoid being labeled a “womanizer,” a “smooth talker,” or a “pretty face without substance,” think outside the box! You’re looking to seduce a woman who is out of the ordinary, a woman who is out of the ordinary… Ask yourself how you could be the kind of man she likes.

Tip #4: Take an interest in her

When you’re trying to seduce a woman who knows her worth, you can’t spend your time talking about yourself. Sure, she’ll want to get to know you over time, but at this point she doesn’t know who you are and hasn’t decided how interested she wants to be in you.

Step by step. For now, your goal is to capture this woman’s attention and, above all, to make a good impression. Are you afraid of making a faux pas? Are you afraid of being uninteresting? Then shut up and let her talk. Women like to talk, that’s a well-known fact, but spoiler alert, they like to be listened to even more! And yes, it makes a difference.

If you are looking for how to score points with a so-called inaccessible woman: ask her questions and listen to the answers; put your ego aside; give her as much space as you would like to have in her life. This way, she will understand that you really want to spend time with her and not just flatter your ego by adding a name to your list.

It’s all about timing!

You are not the master of time. As a result, you have no control over the moment when you meet this exceptional woman. If you are totally ready to start a beautiful story, this is not necessarily the case for Madame. At the moment when your paths cross, you do not know where she comes from or what she has experienced before you. Your beautiful stranger may be married, separated, grieving a past relationship or simply interested in another man – whom she met the day before, in the same bar.

In any case, it will be important to give him room to live. Why? So that she can have time to notice your absence. By staying around, without being too oppressive, you allow a woman to realize that she misses you… And that’s when you’ll be most attractive. This way of doing things takes you out of the “love me at all costs” box.

By putting some distance between yourself and continuing to live your life, you are implying that:

• you do things with your life;
• you know what you are worth;
• you’re not the kind of man to run after him.

In short, you are making this woman understand that if she is interested, she will have to approach you too, otherwise someone else might have the same chance. With all these tips, you are now ready to seduce an inaccessible woman.

Remember, you are your own seduction asset. Don’t try to be someone else. Accept your qualities as well as your faults and play the authenticity card.