How to Persuade Someone to Leave Their Partner for You?

Imagine you are in a nice bar and you catch the eye of a woman who immediately attracts you.

As the evening goes on, you notice her looking at you and smiling. You start a conversation and she seems to enjoy your company. You compliment her and she responds positively. You are very attracted to her and feel that there is a deeper connection than just wanting to take her home.

However, during the discussion, you find out that she is already in a relationship.

You understand that her relationship is not in good shape, that she is going out to take her mind off things.

I would say then, why not try to know her better?

The beautiful Helen of Troy was indeed the cause of the Trojan War to follow Paris.

How far are you willing to go for her?

Here are the essential steps to seduce a woman who is already in a relationship.

The first step is to be sure that she is no longer happy in her relationship.

It’s not very glorious to break up a couple that works. And above all, there is little chance that you will succeed.

Learn to be discreet.

You are like an infiltrator in this story.

We’re going to imagine that she’s not a tease who likes to reassure herself by seducing people left and right and that she’s really unhappy in her relationship. We’re also going to start from the fact that there really is something between you.

In your approach, you will have to remain discreet and patient.

First of all, she will want to handle her separation alone and in her own way. And, she will especially not want your relationship to be known so as not to come across as an easy girl. Women care about their reputation and the image they leave.

Should we talk about his rival?

During your first dates, you want to know more about her. You want to get to know her and you ask questions. But should you or should you not talk about her current relationship and her partner?

I think it’s wiser of you not to talk about it.

You should listen to her if she needs to confide but keep some distance.

She must already feel guilty enough, no need to remind her. If she still has feelings for him, don’t criticize, it’s normal to feel tenderness, guilt and not want to make the other person suffer.

And you’re not going to be a man who shows a lack of self-confidence.

If she is here to see you, it is to have a good time with you but also to gauge you. Is she really going to break up her relationship for a jealous, insecure and critical man?

Learn to control your jealousy

Jealousy is one of the worst feelings. It hurts and can drive you crazy. Avoid texting every 5 minutes to see where she is or if she’s thinking about you. Take it upon yourself. Learn to control.

Breathe. Put down that phone. And go get some fresh air. Go do some sport, it will do you good, you will have something to talk about and you will take care of your body.

She told you she was going to leave him but she’s been putting it off? It might not be as easy as you thought. Trust her.

Letting go is agreeing to let go of what you cannot control.

For example, if they live together and she is leaving him, the material separation: housing, furniture, papers will take time.

Keep the confidence

Trust yourself. You are a good man. She told you that you were her choice.

Put yourself in her shoes for a bit. A breakup is never easy, without pain. Plus, she’s doing her best to start a beautiful relationship with you.

You don’t have to deal with all this. You’re not the one who’s suffering in this story. She’s for you, you just have to be patient, and believe her when she tells you she’s in love.

Stop doubting and look at all the things she does for you. All the things she gives up. Think about all the things she is willing to change in her life to be with you.

Another question may be bothering you. That of betrayal. How can you trust a woman who cheats on her partner?

Not always easy, especially for the jealous.

What will happen when she gets tired of you? Will she look elsewhere?

For this reason, some men have decided to only seduce single women.

You have embarked on this adventure, now you must take it on calmly and with confidence. Think about your common future.

How to deal with the aftermath of a breakup?

She finally left her boyfriend who became her ex.

She is officially with you.

The entourage: family, friends, colleagues are informed. Everyone has their comment, nice or not. You feel that some of them touch her.

Should you intervene? No. Stay discreet, build your story together.

What if she gets sad thinking about her ex? It can happen. Let her cry, cheer her up, tell her she’s with you now and everything’s going to be okay.

What if her ex contacts her again? If he writes, calls, cries, or even threatens her, this is the time to be subtle and assert yourself gently. You have agreed to let her finish her notice period with him, but you don’t have to deal with the psychological consequences on her ex.

Either she makes it clear that he’s in the past, or you can take it on more head-on. But ideally, she’s the one who should be handling this. Not you. He’s her ex, not yours. If you see that she’s not cutting the cord, then maybe you can raise your voice.

Give him time to forget his ex. Give him time to bury this relationship. And above all, put your energy into your beautiful love story, if you want to make him forget the old one.