If you are a virgin and are looking to lose your virginity, the Lover-Coach team can give you some advice to live this experience with complete peace of mind.
First of all, it is important to be patient and not obsess about it. Women can easily identify men who are just looking for quick sex, which can scare them away.
Think of this stage of your sex life as an experience that will grow stronger over time, and will impact your life as a seducer in the long run. So it’s important not to rush things. Taking your time to get down to business is not a failure.
If you are still young, it is likely that young girls your age are in the same situation as you. It is important to know that women are often afraid of their first time and are therefore less eager.
A young girl will first and foremost look for someone she can trust. You shouldn’t stress her out because even if she shares your desire, if you start being too direct, she might run away.
Working on your seduction is the best way to lose your virginity. And to be a good seducer, you have to have self-confidence. To do this, you have to develop your charisma while managing not to appear too sure of yourself. First of all, you will have to remain impassive and act as if your goal was not this.
Assume that you are there to enjoy some quality time with friends and try to appear a little detached, while being 100% in control of your emotions. Try to come across as someone who is in no rush to close and who appreciates women for who they are, not for what they can bring you.
To be a good seducer, you have to practice… depending on the women you meet. You will have to find the right ways of doing things, that is to say the behaviors that make you attractive and that please women.
You definitely have character traits that differentiate you from others and make you charming, don’t hesitate to highlight them. Try to forget that you want to have a sexual relationship at all costs because it will show and will break all the work of seduction done before.
Once you feel you have found the right partner and are sure that she is willing, keep a few things in mind. Be gentle, even if you lose your composure a little. If you are rough or brutal, you will ruin everything and this moment of pleasure may become a very bad memory for your partner. In addition, even the first times never last very long, if you go too fast, you risk premature ejaculation.
First of all, there must be real trust between you and your partner and this will come if there is good communication. Don’t hesitate to ask her what she wants, and if she agrees to try a position or anything else that is part of the sexual act.
Another thing, try to always have a condom with you. You won’t be able to predict your “first time”, so you have to be prepared for any possibility. It is very important to protect yourself and it will only strengthen the feeling of trust established between you and your partner.
The more you show your rushed side, or even the edge of despair, the closer your charisma will be to zero and the more girls will avoid you. Remember to always keep a relaxed attitude because if you appear stressed, you risk scaring people off… the opposite of the desired effect!
Finally, don’t underestimate your charm: women don’t know that you’re a virgin. This can happen very quickly without you expecting it. So instead of looking for this at all costs, wait for this moment to come naturally without stressing yourself out and everything will go well.
This moment will inevitably come!
The entire Lover-Coach team hopes that this article will be useful to you and wishes you a very nice “first time”.