How to get a girl interested over text and keep her attention?

You’ve met the woman of your dreams and managed to get her phone number. Now it’s important to maintain regular contact with her, but how do you spark her interest via text message?

Texting conversations have their own codes and it can be difficult to understand the tone and emotions that accompany the words. It is therefore important to think carefully before sending a message and to adapt to the situation and the state of mind of the person opposite.

It is also essential not to be too pushy or clingy, as this could scare the person away and cause them to run away. It is important to find the right balance between being interesting and captivating, while still giving the other person space.

By using the right words and phrases, you will be able to create an emotional connection with the person and make them hooked on your messages.

However, by applying certain strategies, you can easily make her addicted to your little messages.

First, jealousy will be your best ally. The wall established by the SMS format to communicate will in itself help you to provoke a certain jealousy. We simply cannot have visual contact with the other so we are forced to interpret their writings and somewhere imagine them without knowing if the interpretation is really the right one.

So by talking about another woman to your chosen one, you will inevitably create doubt as to the threat she may represent for her.

Assessing the degree of joking and second degree is almost impossible in writing, so it is this questioning and this uncertainty which will create dependence on your answers.

Jealousy is a human feeling that is often accompanied by a desire for possession and exclusivity that is very often found in a love story.

If your chosen one feels threatened, she will do what is necessary to keep you in her life and be first in your eyes.

The other strategy is indifference, so a strategy opposite to the one described previously.

Yet it is just as effective. This technique consists of first showing interest in her, then showing yourself completely indifferent. When she addresses you, react neutrally, even coldly, as if it did not affect you.

You can even go as far as radio silence. This may seem harsh, but doing it temporarily will create a feeling of lack in her and therefore make her addicted. She will indeed wonder what she did to obtain such a lack of reaction… A perverse but effective technique!

It works because this time it appeals to another human reaction: the fear of loss. Indeed, we often only really realize the value of something when we have lost it.

If a woman likes you but she’s unsure and prefers not to rush into things, the fear of losing you can simply speed things up, allowing you to seduce her, or even get her hooked, much faster than expected.

Being indifferent at times can also allow you to arouse curiosity because it gives you an element of mystery. The famous law of “run away from me, I’ll follow you” will also apply. Causing confusion can help you destabilize her and gain the upper hand!

Be careful, however, not to be too indifferent, at the risk of seeing her become so too and, in this case, you will have lost her forever.

The entire Lover-Coach team hopes that this article will be useful to you and wishes you great success with your next conquests.