How to find harmony in your romantic relationship?

It is not uncommon for the question “How to save your relationship?” to be on the minds of many people. It is important to keep in mind that problems can arise in a romantic relationship, but this does not have to mean the end. To restore a struggling romantic relationship, it is crucial to be willing to work together to overcome obstacles.

Communication is the key to solving problems in a relationship. It is essential to talk about your feelings and concerns, but also to listen carefully to your partner and try to understand their point of view. This requires patience, empathy and understanding.

Spending quality time together is also crucial. Taking time to reconnect and rediscover each other can help rekindle the flame of love. Planning date nights, doing activities together, and taking care of each other are effective ways to strengthen the relationship.

Finally, it is important to remember why you fell in love with the other person in the first place. Focusing on the qualities and positive aspects of the relationship can help you overcome difficulties and regain a strong emotional connection.

Saving your relationship is not easy, but with patience, effort and communication, it is possible to overcome obstacles and strengthen the relationship.

There is a wonderful story about saving a couple, it is that of Alexandre Jardin in “Le Zèbre”. The character of Gaspard Sauvage initiates a game of seduction and reconquest to reconquer his Camille, it is exquisitely beautiful! Although risky, it is all the charm of reconquest. It proves that a man in a relationship can be a Lover for his partner. And that is what we want: this poetry and this determination to save his relationship.

After the exhilarating dopamine rush that makes us do anything and everything at the beginning of a relationship, a couple, even if they are close-knit, will almost inevitably sail in calm waters after a certain number of years of living together. But it is in this routine zone, where the cruise is no longer so much fun, that we must react before love gives way to habit. It is at this moment, above all, that we unconsciously cause turmoil, we nitpick, we stir things up to create a new storm that could shake us up and force us to change the course of our too-calm river.

For some couples, it will be indifference and estrangement rather than sterile confrontations, so that each will end up rebuilding their life elsewhere. For others, it will be the option of rafting in rough waters, this period of violent shocks, composed daily of quarrels and reproaches that will invariably lead to the final clash: it’s make or break. But if you don’t want to take the risk of losing everything because you feel deep down in your soul that this woman, who shares your life, is in fact the One, you must act now!

No matter which of you is the source of the first crack, the time has come to stop blaming and instead to approach her. And how do you win her back? Certainly not with just smiles and a few syrupy compliments. Although that never hurts either. But rather by setting up an original strategy, like the Zebra, who sends his wife impassioned and anonymous letters.

You could simply get back into flirting mode with her. Arrange to meet her in hotels or restaurants unexpectedly, send her little gifts at her workplace, pick her up to take her on a weekend away when she doesn’t expect it. You will probably get a few rejections, especially if she has other plans, but don’t give up, try to convince her to play your game, tell her that she risks nothing by letting herself be seduced again, become her minister of entertainment, the one who will make her life a wonder every day.

If your financial situation does not allow for unnecessary expenses, you have other options:

– a picnic in a park

– a bike ride

– words of love written on the scented clover roll

– flowers picked in the field or on the side of the road

– a kind word stuck in his key ring

– her favorite treat slipped into her bag

– a declaration of love taped to the fridge door or any other object she uses every day

– a household chore that you usually refuse to do and that you will have carried out like a pro…

In short, there are a multitude of little attentions that cost nothing more than a little of your time and that will make all the difference.