How to approach a woman who has lost confidence in men?

This situation can be tricky, as it is understandable that the person in question may have reservations about opening up to a man again. It is important to approach this situation with tact and respect.

It can be helpful to show that you are different from those who caused this loss of trust. Avoid overly direct approaches and quick advances. Listen to his feelings and experiences, and show that you understand his fears.

Next, take the time to build a relationship based on trust and communication. Be honest and transparent in your intentions, but don’t force things. Be patient and let the relationship develop naturally.

Finally, be attentive to her needs and limits. Respect her pace and don’t push her out of her comfort zone. By showing that you are a reliable and caring person, you may be able to help restore her trust in men.

There are several challenges awaiting the Lover. But the challenge involving the seduction of a woman who has lost confidence in men represents a most complex test. Moreover, it implies an honesty and commitment that may not be suitable for the Lover’s career. Let’s say that the desire to seduce this kind of woman should be accompanied by the desire to really settle down in a relationship. Otherwise, the Lover who would charm such a woman only for her pleasure would no longer be fair play, which is not in the Lover’s manners.

So, the Lover who is ripe for a real long-term relationship can venture towards the suspicious woman. The one-for-whom-all-men-are-bastards is decidedly cynical or disillusioned, and it will take the Lover a lot of tact, a great capacity for persuasion as well as a good dose of know-how to attract the attention of the lady. The best advice we can give you: be sincere. Genuine sincerity.

And why not reveal everything to her? It’s hard to say what will convince a woman who no longer trusts. For her, men are all the same. They are liars, losers, boors, selfish, in short, the enemy. It must also be taken into consideration that if this woman is financially independent, she simply no longer needs a man in her life. Except perhaps for sex, assuming that she is into it and heterosexual. So the Lover is in trouble if he thinks he can dangle the usual crutches in front of her, namely financial support and a nice warm bed.

However, some of these women are not made for celibacy and loneliness weighs on them, very often. If the woman you covet is one of them, you have a chance of being able to seduce her but… in the rules of the art, of course. How? With humor, kindness, gentleness, and above all respect. The betrayed, deceived woman always carries within her this humiliation, this shame of having been fooled. The only things that will restore her confidence are recognition and respect. Making her feel her importance to you remains essential. But it must not be played. Your respect must be sincere and felt.

If you admit that you are a Lover and that you want to end this life of perpetual hunting, she may laugh at you. But if you insist by telling her that the only thing you have not yet experienced is stability and fidelity, she may listen to you. This does not mean that she will easily fall into your arms like a Beatles fan in front of Paul McCartney in the 1960s. Certainly not. But if she is tired of eating her toast alone every morning, she may say to herself: “at least the guy is honest, I could spend time with him without getting attached…”

But the main thing is there, in this eventuality of a non-binding encounter. You will be a one-off, occasional entertainment, and little by little, what should be only a friendly arrangement will become more serious. But once again, we repeat, be sure of your feelings towards her. Do not play this game if you are not certain of loving this woman forever. Tell yourself that if you betray her, she might well make you pay the full bill for all those who preceded you.