How can you watch porn together without it becoming embarrassing?

Are you looking to spice up your married life and wondering how to go about it? Have you ever thought of sharing your porn viewing with your partner? Contrary to what you might think, she can already watch porn on her own! In fact, you might not be the only consumer of adult sites under your roof.

Watching porn alone can be advantageous in allowing you to relax and indulge in a little solo pleasure. However, watching porn alone too often and masturbating can drive your partner away from you, as you can end up being more used to touching yourself than being touched, which can make it difficult to reach orgasm with your partner.

On the other hand, by sharing this moment of relaxation with your partner, you can spice things up and also enrich your practices together.

How do you approach the subject?

It’s true that if relationships are fresh with your other half, or if you’ve just met someone new, it can be a bit awkward to throw your porn on the big screen once you’re in bed. To get the ball rolling and see how hot she is, you can start by talking about a couple of friends you know who have started watching porn together from time to time, and who share lots of new sexual fantasies together as a result. The idea is to take the mystery out of porn and show her that it’s common and fun.

Depending on her reaction, you can tell her you’d like to try it once with her, if she’s up for it too. You can start with an erotic film rather than porn, or better still, let her choose. She’ll be able to show you what she likes and some of her fantasies that you probably don’t know about.

Have you seen the film 7 ans de mariage with Didier Bourdon and Catherine Frot? It might be a good idea to get the ball rolling. The scenario is simple: since they’ve been married, relations between the couple are frozen. She’s no longer in the mood for sex, and he tries to warm her up without success. Then he slowly introduces her to porn, swinging and role-playing, and their relationship gets off to a completely new start. It’s not only very funny, but it might also give her a heads-up before you start throwing your favorite web gang-bang at her.

Set the scene:
– Dim the lights to create a propitious context. It’s not certain that watching trash-porn in full light for the first time sounds sexy to her.
– Drink a small glass of wine. We’re not telling you to turn your head upside down, just relax so it won’t be too awkward if she’s not used to or anxious about doing this with you. Spend some time together BEFOREhand, have a drink, talk, create intimacy so that the film is just the next logical step in the evening.
– Get closer. If you’re watching a chick get put on all sides, each at one end of the couch, it’s unlikely the whipped cream will rise.

And let the moment guide you! If you start to feel tactile, simply enjoy the moment. Give yourself ideas, fantasies, and if the experience is a success, don’t hesitate to repeat it.