You know it and you dread it as much as you want. That long-awaited moment when your lips will meet those of the pretty blonde in front of you. But is it really necessary to kiss her tonight? What if she’s a bad kisser, worse still, what if you’re a bad kisser and, in an instant, you lose all chance of concluding.

The art and manner of kissing

All these questions are running through your head and there you are at home, alone without having tried anything, your mind clouded by sensual images that will keep you awake for a good part of the night.

First of all, there are no real right or wrong ways to kiss. It’s all about chemistry, the connection between two people.

When we talk about the art and manner of kissing, it’s more about your ability to build desire and then dance with the other person as if you were one.

Should you kiss on the first date?

Yes and no. Even if the question is burning on your lips, you are the only one who can sense if it is the right time to kiss your date. Some will say that there are signs that do not lie:

• she bites her lips;
• she keeps looking at your mouth;
• she plays with the straw of her cocktail;
• She’s wearing the shiny lip balm for the third time.

In fact, it could just as well be:

• stressed;
• embarrassed by the lettuce leaf that adorns your smile;
• telling you that his glass is empty, without daring to recommend;
• have dry lips.

You see, every sign is open to interpretation and you will give it the meaning you want to see. So, take a deep breath and take a chance. Yes, times are tough for men and you are afraid of being seen as the local stalker, or worse, the pusher.

The fact is that you are alone facing this young woman who is still there after hours at your side and, unless a close friend is hiding at the next table to give you the signal, you can only trust your intuition.

3 tips for kissing a girl for the first time!

So you’ve decided to kiss the lovely blonde sitting across from you. You’re not sure she’ll accept and, deep down, you’re preparing yourself for rejection. If you’re unsure, here are three tips that will help you avoid the glass of water in your face or the poker face of ” What are you doing here!?”

1 – The tactical rapprochement

Start with a less invasive touch than a tongue in the mouth. At a restaurant, bring your hand closer to hers on the table. On the street, gently pull her away from the curb by putting your arm around her. At the movies, gently slide your arm off the armrest.

This first step will allow you to assess the situation.

2 – Ladies first!

It’s 2022, who says men still have to make the first move? Some women love to take charge and take the evening to the point of no return. If you like this initiative, let her know that you’re not the type of man to kiss a woman who hasn’t shown him any tangible interest.

Out of fear? No! Out of respect, first of all, and perhaps a little out of ego, it’s exciting to let yourself go to the other person’s initiative sometimes.

3 – Honesty that makes you crack

Between you and me, being in front of a man, with whom I had a very good evening, who looks me straight in the eyes to whisper: “I really want to kiss you and I’m going to do it”, that does something.

Remember the power of the right and well-placed words. Speak truthfully and you might be surprised at how your evening turns out.

Whether you choose technique one, two, three, or even another, remember to have fun on your date. Have fun, laugh, talk about things you like… You are with this woman to have a good time and get to know her, not to get yourself in more knots than you did during your math degree.

Love and seduction of others begins with acceptance and love of oneself.