Becoming a god of cunnilingus…

You’re here to improve your seduction skills, so let’s go over the basics of sexual pleasure. There’s no denying that you can score points by making your partner cum. Let’s start with the basics: become an expert at cunnilingus. While the term “cunnilingus” is cute, we’re going to talk about licking a vagina.

I’m going to attempt a complex task to explain to you how to perform quality cunnilingus.

A little anatomy to start with

Some will say that we can go a little randomly and give pleasure by licking everywhere.

Others will say that when they are alone face to face with a woman’s sex, they don’t know where to start.

So, to avoid more questions, look at how the female sex is made.

First there are labia majora (which may not be that big), then labia minora (which may protrude from the labia majora). But regardless, every vulva is normal.

At the top is the clitoris, which looks like a small button. In some people it is well hidden, in others it stands out a lot. At the very bottom you can see the entrance to the vagina.

In addition, the pubis can be more or less hairy, which is not a lack of hygiene. In any case, it is normal for the area to have a little odor and for the discharge to have a little taste.

Cunnilingus: The Path to the Crotch

Ok, now you’ve seen what a woman’s sex is like, it’s time to get started.

It is already advisable not to plunge your head like a mad dog directly into the other’s crotch without warning.

The pussy is an area that is still unknown to some women, finding yourself with both eyes 10 cm from a vulva can be scary. So take your time, especially if you have not been seeing your partner for long.

You can then go down very gently, caressing and kissing the body, the mouth, the breasts, the stomach, the hips, the thighs.

If these seem to open naturally as you get to this area, that’s a good sign… But if you feel that the person is not comfortable with being licked, don’t force it, reassure them and move up.

There are also partners who will particularly appreciate a wilder, more direct cunnilingus. But hey, when in doubt, for the first time, I advise you to go slowly.

How to perform cunnilingus?

The basic principle is that all women are different. Just because you managed to make your ex cum for 10 years with your super technique doesn’t mean it will work on the next one.

You will have to feel your way around a lover a little bit to discover her preferences. And for that, you will have to COMMUNICATE. If you are both comfortable, ask her what she prefers.

Alternatively, you can ask your sweetheart to guide your head with her hands. The face-sitting position — when the person receiving cunnilingus sits on the other person’s head — is also very useful to allow her to lead the dance.

From there, know that to perform cunnilingus, there are three main parameters to take into account.

First step of cunnilingus: how to use your tongue

Imagine your tongue as a paintbrush that will allow you to paint pleasure on the other person’s sex. And a paintbrush can be used in many ways.

For example, you can use the flat of your tongue, the tip in a precise way, or even a sort of in-between.

You can also try making a U shape with your tongue to modulate the sensations.

Step Two of Cunnilingus: How to Move Your Tongue

The tongue can make long flat strokes from top to bottom. This is also perfect for beginners, it allows on one side to lubricate the area, on the other to realize if there is a more sensitive corner than another.

You can also do more precise licks, make small circles, zigzags, tap. Another fairly well-known trick is to make the alphabet with your tongue to test different movements. Come on, A, B, C, D…

Cunnilingus also involves using your mouth in its entirety: think about kissing, and why not sucking on pieces of skin or the clitoris, or even biting. Be careful, not everyone likes this and don’t forget that this area is extremely sensitive. So, it can quickly become painful.

Third step of cunnilingus: the parts to lick

Remember the drawing above? Well, now it’s going to be VERY useful.

Concretely, all the areas presented can be more or less erogenous depending on the person. The clitoris, the labia minora and majora but also the entrance to the vagina. Go everywhere!

Some men tend to focus on the clitoris because they have found it. Bad news: although this organ is the pleasure organ, it does not work like a switch.

This can be unnecessary, even painful, for overly sensitive people.

Now that you know these three main criteria, you have the basics of a good cunnilingus.

Some ideas to make it unforgettable

You have the basics. But you can improve on basics. From there, there are a lot of little tricks to make it more exciting.

• fingering at the same time: a generally appreciated classic.
• use your free hands to caress your partner’s body or chest
• use a vibrating sex toy
• think about pace: does the person seem to react differently depending on your speed?
• make large, slow circles a few centimeters from the clitoris… Then, little by little, bring them closer together and speed them up

But the most important thing is that you WANT to do it. Don’t force yourself to eat the pussy.

At the same time, hearing the other person enjoy themselves with just their mouth is pretty cool for the ego!

Anyone can be good at cunnilingus

The good news is that being good at cunnilingus is accessible to everyone.

So don’t despair, just be patient. Sometimes the same movement has to be repeated for several dozen seconds to cause pleasure, but it won’t necessarily work every time.

And if it REALLY doesn’t work, that’s okay. There’s no point in trying too hard and there are plenty of other ways to have fun in bed.