BDSM practices

Before we begin, a little explanation is in order: BDSM is an acronym that stands for Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. It is a set of sexual practices involving power dynamics between the participants. These practices can include role-playing, punishment, physical restraints, humiliation, and consensual pain.

Although BDSM is often misunderstood and stigmatized by society, it is important to emphasize that these practices are entirely consensual and can be a source of pleasure and release for those who practice them. It is also essential to respect each other’s boundaries and ensure that all parties involved have given their informed and ongoing consent. Communication is therefore a key element in these practices to ensure that everything is done with respect, safety, and pleasure for all participants.

BDSM is pure bliss! But only for the initiated… Far from being a naughty little game that you play one night to spice up your life as a couple, BDSM is a unique world, obeying precise codes and only aimed at a group of seasoned volunteers. Not everyone can practice BDSM. At least not in private circles.

If you want to play the hooded Master to scare your partner, that’s your business, but generally speaking, know that women are not always receptive to this type of sexuality. If from the start, you put your cards on the table and she follows you, it’s a sign of a possible agreement on the subject. If you don’t feel that it’s her thing, don’t even mention BDSM, you’ll scare her away.

So, you’ve met an exceptional woman who loves rough play. If you’re a BDSM veteran yourself, you’ll be in for a treat in the best dungeon. If you’re a newbie, you’re in for a treat you won’t soon forget.

BDSM is: bondage, discipline, domination, sado-masochistic. First of all, the idea of being tied up, handcuffed, tied up, suspended, bound, gagged, may not find much enthusiasm among you. Unless it is your conquest who asks you to make her undergo this fate. On both sides, precautions must be taken to avoid injuries and above all, before even starting, you must agree on a safe word to use to stop the game if the limits are exceeded.

The humiliation and constraint suffered by one, dominated by the other, are based on an unbreakable contract of mutual trust. If one of the protagonists betrayed this tacit agreement, there would be a risk of injury or worse. This is why we do not recommend at all for neophytes to indulge in BDSM practices. The cases of unfortunate incidents are unfortunately very numerous.

Then the blows, floggings, spankings and other such subtle pleasures… It is also necessary to agree on a limit not to be exceeded. Establish from the start the untouchable areas, the degree of redness to be respected, up to what point the skin can mark and not more, etc.

Pliers and needles must also be given special attention, both in terms of sanitization and the limit of the pain they inflict. The same goes for hot wax, which must not cause burns other than superficial ones.

Regarding electroshocks and/or erotic asphyxiation, these are no longer simple precautions to take. When you get to this stage of your BDSM sex games, you have to be a pro. And despite all your experience, you remain aware of the risks that things could go wrong. At any time, an accidental death or dramatic paralysis could occur. So, there is no room for error. Who does not remember the tragic end of the American actor David Carradine who pushed the cork a little too far?!

In light of these details, are you still optimistic about the BDSM adventure?

From a philosophical point of view, playing with the concepts of suffering or inflicting suffering, going from executioner to victim, has always been an extremely intriguing reflection for the human race. So the Lover may be interested in it too. But if you don’t have the necessary expertise, stay soft, it’s safer for the future of your career as a seducer! And then if you insist, immerse yourself in reading the Marquis de Sade or Sleeping Beauty by the delinquent Anne Rice, that should be enough to make you shiver.